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Tonebone88
February 17th, 2012, 09:45 PM
This question is one of personal preference for guys of any sexual orientation. So, in your opinion, does a penis look better when it is hard or soft?

I know that for sexual stuff a guy's penis needs to be hard, but I tend to like the look of a soft penis more.

When you answer this question, say which way you prefer your penis to be and which you would prefer when looking at another guy naked.

senior.2013
February 17th, 2012, 09:47 PM
Uh, I dont know. I like mine better when soft I believe. Not exactly sure, but a good question!

Christheman
February 17th, 2012, 09:53 PM
I prefer it hard it hoists my self esteem but soft i feel small

Bubbawhack
February 17th, 2012, 10:11 PM
Depends. Soft when getting aroused and wearing boxers, but hard when nude.

Eddie.37
February 17th, 2012, 10:29 PM
I prefer seeing it hard in full glory

thomasgj
February 17th, 2012, 10:31 PM
depends. interestingly enough, it looks better when it's like "chubby" but but not yet hard. haha :$

monkeydo
February 18th, 2012, 12:22 AM
really tough question.... I think I love seeing both hard and soft the same. I can admire a dick when its soft and just enjoy looking at it, but at the same time, if I see another guy really rock hard it will turn me on instantly!

CoolGuyXD
February 18th, 2012, 12:57 AM
It depends for me. I like just flopping my penis around when its soft. But I kinda like to show it off when Im hard ha.

somethingrandom
February 18th, 2012, 01:09 AM
As weird as this is gonna sound, itlooks better when it mirrors mine. From an artistic standpoint, a soft dick looks much better. From a turn-on (well, more like keep-on) view, it looks better rock-hard

twinkies11
February 18th, 2012, 01:17 AM
i think i would have to say the chubby comment makes sense. I guess i like mine when it is going towards hard but not hard. still hangin ya know.

Patc
February 18th, 2012, 01:54 AM
Haha, not sure about what looks better, but really I guess I prefer it to be soft most of the time, otherwise it just kind of gets in the way...

teenageapplelover
February 18th, 2012, 03:27 AM
depends. interestingly enough, it looks better when it's like "chubby" but but not yet hard. haha :$

i think i would have to say the chubby comment makes sense. I guess i like mine when it is going towards hard but not hard. still hangin ya know.

I agree... I like it dangling but as large as it is when I'm erect.


It depends for me. I like just flopping my penis around when its soft. But I kinda like to show it off when Im hard ha.

Agreed!

spawn1998
February 18th, 2012, 09:13 AM
like it soft and making it hard, also you never know how big a soft penis will get when hard, sometimes find my self thinking that when in the changing room and seeing them soft

TeddyBearRock
February 18th, 2012, 10:04 AM
hard

Patuxent78
February 18th, 2012, 10:12 AM
I want the penis to be soft before I start to work it. You can see and feel the progress you've made.

obvious
February 18th, 2012, 11:02 PM
hard ftw

Matt_is_Awesome
February 18th, 2012, 11:03 PM
Me Not Gay
But My Dick Looks Great Either Way haha

jack235
February 18th, 2012, 11:19 PM
id much rather a bigger soft one. and perfer seeing it on other guys too

Whoiskevin
February 21st, 2012, 10:01 PM
hard because I know he is ready to go

Stronger
February 21st, 2012, 10:05 PM
Haha, good question, either or, looks good :P XD

AHSboy
February 21st, 2012, 10:34 PM
Well, if I had to choose, I would say hard... Because otherwise, it's creepy...

randomme
February 22nd, 2012, 05:01 PM
i prefer hard but i do not mind soft

Auzzie 94
February 22nd, 2012, 05:06 PM
I like mine better soft.. or semi hard.. I think it looks sexier when soft or semi hard.. but it looks good hard. Girls opinions are mixed when it comes to if my penis looks hotter soft or hard.

babolat96
February 22nd, 2012, 06:31 PM
My personal preference is usually soft.

Silicate Wielder
February 22nd, 2012, 07:38 PM
I think it looks better hard, i've seen it in the mirror so i've gotten to see how girl might see it from a couple angles.

SourceRed
February 22nd, 2012, 07:40 PM
Probably hard but i still like it when it's soft

iCookie Jar
February 23rd, 2012, 05:30 AM
I'd say a soft penis is more attractive to look at, but a hard one is more fun :D

kaiba
February 23rd, 2012, 06:47 AM
I prefer mine hard cuz it's bigger. Simple.

Slosh
February 23rd, 2012, 09:52 AM
Hard looks better for growers, but soft is better for showers.

MrSnow
February 23rd, 2012, 02:23 PM
I like mine when its hard. Grower so.

JASON07
February 23rd, 2012, 02:44 PM
I like to c it soft lol..... Like the view of it when itss soft

Coolguy10890
February 24th, 2012, 06:19 PM
Depends, I like touching it when soft when I wanna get aroused, then I love how big my dick is when its hard and then I beat it! :D

CaliKiDD
February 24th, 2012, 06:30 PM
in btween it looks cute but big

demstrawberries
February 24th, 2012, 07:05 PM
Like someone said earlier, not quite hard, but just enough ... if that makes sense.

acid_rayne
February 24th, 2012, 07:25 PM
Haha i always like to see a soft one, Cause u always get to see hard. IDK its CONFUSIZNG:P

SamW
February 24th, 2012, 07:26 PM
Hard

Gordo
February 24th, 2012, 07:43 PM
I think mine looks better soft and i'm a grower, just doesn't grow that much haha. Plus it's easier to walk around when it's soft.

skandardude
February 24th, 2012, 07:59 PM
Well enjoying either way is two separate schools of thought. A soft dick shows natural size, comfort, and can be artistic. Soft shows given-fortitude and you can see the natural endowment. Whereas a nice hard one can be just a enjoyable in different respects: sexual excitement, fun, and shown-fortitude. Just depends for me :)

digzchickz
February 25th, 2012, 12:22 AM
I like it when mine is hard.

Jake777dylan
February 26th, 2012, 06:07 PM
I like it soft when I get ready to Jo it feels awesome

The_Narwhal
February 26th, 2012, 06:14 PM
I like both :D

miamikid786
February 26th, 2012, 08:03 PM
hard because im kinda small when im soft >.>

MykeSoBe
February 26th, 2012, 08:19 PM
I just don't like it soft. When it's soft, I can't show off its true 7-inch potential. So sometimes, when I'm sleeping over at a friend's house or sth, I'll purposely try to get it hard so I can subtly flaunt it. :D

miamikid786
February 26th, 2012, 08:20 PM
i like to see it hard lol it looks amazing

BigG
March 12th, 2012, 10:29 AM
hard makes the peerson in the mood faster!-BigG

Skeptical Bear
March 12th, 2012, 10:32 AM
I like mine to be soft. I don't really know why.

MJohn
March 12th, 2012, 11:06 AM
Hard. So that I see that I'm not too small.

CryWolf
March 12th, 2012, 12:29 PM
I like the look of a soft dick but I love the look and feel of a hard one :D

bwl17
March 12th, 2012, 12:41 PM
I like it in between. Kinda hard but still hanging. i just think mine looks better like that

BigG
March 12th, 2012, 03:49 PM
hard looks better when its bulging and pulsing-BigG

BoyTeen1997
March 12th, 2012, 07:20 PM
mine looks way better hard

samb12
March 12th, 2012, 08:10 PM
i think a penis looks better hard and i would prefer looking at a guy who hard as well

GirlLover15
March 12th, 2012, 08:10 PM
I want to jerk a soft penis haha

Joey2198
March 15th, 2012, 12:22 AM
yea i prefer hard

Dallas
March 15th, 2012, 02:03 AM
Soft because looks better and it's a good challenge trying to get it hard. ;)

Abyssal Echo
March 15th, 2012, 05:45 AM
It depends for me. I like just flopping my penis around when its soft. But I kinda like to show it off when Im hard ha.

same here

zackboy
March 15th, 2012, 07:38 AM
I like both but mostly soft ones are nice to look at.It's kind of more natural...

Atrociousness
March 18th, 2012, 05:14 PM
Depends. Soft when getting aroused and wearing boxers, but hard when nude.
This.

JJSSHH
March 18th, 2012, 07:31 PM
Hard. It just seems like if your going to be naked, why not have a little fun?

nick2014
March 18th, 2012, 09:56 PM
I perfer looking at guys small b/c were all almost around the same size small...and I perfer myself hard b/c it doeant make me feel feel like im small even tho I know I am :\

VladimirA920
March 19th, 2012, 04:28 PM
Depends, I think both, but of course If you are at a nudist beach, I think is better be soft, but If you are going to have "fun" hard is better. So both look nice.

Coolboi
March 19th, 2012, 04:47 PM
soft when in school or out doing something , but hard when having fun

CyberEntity
March 24th, 2012, 10:48 AM
I like mine semi-erect. I don't know why.

yogibear
March 24th, 2012, 04:53 PM
Idc about how mine looks...but if im looking at another guys hard is good but at times id like to know what it is soft

cadet199
March 24th, 2012, 05:34 PM
I prefer mine hard, and i prefer others hard

madea rocks
March 24th, 2012, 05:47 PM
I think mine looks better hard

lambo640
March 24th, 2012, 05:51 PM
Its more comfy soft unless j/o obviously but looks better hard... if i was looking at a guy naked i'd probably like it soft if itsbig, buit if he's small, then hard

hicko2010
March 24th, 2012, 05:54 PM
i think mine looks good when soft but better when hard

Just_meh
March 25th, 2012, 02:16 PM
In both cases it looks good (mine)

willy93
March 25th, 2012, 03:59 PM
i like watching the transition from soft to hard, so both i guess?

Mike_the_boss
March 25th, 2012, 05:52 PM
I would prefer my penis hard and If I wa looking at I holy it should be soft and hung :)

Marcus339
March 26th, 2012, 12:35 AM
Hard is just more pleasing to the eye, i think. More... manly?

Sudds3
March 26th, 2012, 08:55 PM
I like to have my penis soft, easier to move around and walk around with! I wouls also want to look at a guys soft dick cuz then he wouldnt be turned on by me......

dilldill46
March 26th, 2012, 09:08 PM
a semi-hard one. soft but getting hard, ya know? lol

Darkwizzard48
March 27th, 2012, 02:08 AM
Depends. Soft when getting aroused and wearing boxers, but hard when nude. i AGREE !
:)

Skyhd
March 27th, 2012, 06:40 PM
I prefer seeing it hard

13/bi

McMantis
March 27th, 2012, 07:09 PM
Hard

Sebastian Michaelis
March 27th, 2012, 07:15 PM
I like seeing a long soft uncut aussie penis. I know I'm picky :P oh and must be very hairy too or no hair at all :yummy:

spoke
March 27th, 2012, 07:38 PM
i prefer mine to be hard cause it's small when soft. prefer my friends to be soft when i'm looking at theirs

loganbenson
March 27th, 2012, 08:25 PM
I am used to mine being hard.....I like my hard because it look bigger but when I look at guys naked it sexier soft :p

Bojan
March 29th, 2012, 03:14 AM
Hard defs

Hermes
March 29th, 2012, 11:21 AM
For my own penis unless it is an obviously sexual situation I like being seen with it as big as gets while still being soft. If I am on my own and not restricted by clothing then I prefer it hard.

When it comes to other guys penises I don't really see many hard and I don't think I'd want most guys I see naked to be hard. On the other hand if I was going to wank with a guy (or even wank him) then for me the best would be to see it get hard.

loop15
March 29th, 2012, 11:30 AM
i think mine looks better soft :yes:

confused65
March 29th, 2012, 03:37 PM
prob soft adult look (if i was gay)

noamillr
March 29th, 2012, 09:26 PM
Hard

Gmonay
March 30th, 2012, 10:11 AM
Erect shows a guys full potential I'm straight but curious-Gmonay

OlaTheWizzV1
April 5th, 2012, 02:06 AM
Curious,

and i like both


but i like it hard in underwear better.

CestDan
April 5th, 2012, 02:23 PM
In my case I think both states have their good parts. When it's soft I like it because I can see when it gets hard ;) ; and when it's hard, I like it because... well, I think it's unnecessary to explain that part xD

music366
April 5th, 2012, 11:32 PM
Rock Hard is always sexy! But a soft penis is hot to me too!

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Cronus32394
April 6th, 2012, 10:08 AM
rock hard

Soccer4life99
April 6th, 2012, 10:09 AM
i like my dick wen it is hard because wen its hard i wank :D but i like it when its soft because it feels better to play with and the head feels more sensitive but i think mine looks sexier wen it is like not full hard but not full soft in between if u know wat i mean

smd11451
April 6th, 2012, 10:11 AM
I love seeing hard penis, especially when tenting underwear :)

Evan-9
April 6th, 2012, 10:29 AM
Hard haha

VirtualGuy012
April 7th, 2012, 07:35 PM
uhm, hard i guess for mine, and for other guys, i don't really look

sammyb88
April 8th, 2012, 11:06 AM
a hard penis, is the best penis!

The captain
April 8th, 2012, 01:46 PM
mmm...hard I think

Gothicdeer
April 8th, 2012, 02:01 PM
I like seeing mine hard but when its medium hard is when its the most comfortable

maskkane20
April 8th, 2012, 02:40 PM
I would prefer mine to be hard, and his as well.

BOSS
April 8th, 2012, 02:41 PM
Oddly enough I prefer it soft for some reason but either way is fine

Npf7
April 8th, 2012, 03:29 PM
I like looking at mine hard

mammolito96
April 8th, 2012, 07:20 PM
i like mine hard and i like other guys to be hard but a soft penis isnt bad. ill take any :yummy:

zach17020
April 8th, 2012, 08:39 PM
hard :)

Maxter15
April 8th, 2012, 09:59 PM
I like seeing a soft cock gettin hard

shore98
April 8th, 2012, 10:11 PM
soft can look good or bad, but everyone looks good hard

OceanBlue
April 8th, 2012, 10:31 PM
Hard when alone soft In public

hockeyfan
October 16th, 2013, 06:58 PM
I prefer hard

Harley Quinn
October 16th, 2013, 06:59 PM
Don't bump old threads. :locked: