Mum moving too fast!!!

[TeddyBearRock]

Well my mum and dad just split up, and now me and my mum have moved out. Now she has a bf and he going to be moving in. I mean we only moved out last month and I meet him 3 weeks ago,my mum said he wouldnt be moving in as soon as. But he is staying twice a week and mow he is bringing his dog!I fucking hate that thing, it sits on the sofa., so there is hair all over it. The house smells and mum is now saying it's my dog

Arrrgh
Comment if you think this is moving to fast!
:mad::mad:

[Amaryllis]

Ask yourself: Can you really force your mum to slow down? Are you very much likely going to have to live with her new boyfriend and his dog?

If the answer is yes to any of those, you should probably try your best to cope with what you've got. Divorce and change is difficult and I understand this is a really shocking thing you're having to go through right now. But sometimes it's better to go wherever the river takes you rather than fight back.

Try to make friends with the dog, your mother's boyfriend -and- your mother. You can be happy if you learn to adapt to your circumstances.

Good luck, dear. Take care.

[Mortal Coil]

I'm really sorry you have to deal with this. It always sucks when stuff like that happens.
First of all, your mum might think any complaints you have are part of the oedipus complex (oh the silly things pop culture would have us believe,) so try to be as mature and rational as possible when you talk to her. Explain exactly what your problems are, and hope she'll listen. It honestly sounds like she's on the rebound, so this may blow over in another few weeks, I don't know.
Also, try not to insult him too much when you talk to your mum. i know it's hard, but she'll get defensive if you do that.

[TeddyBearRock]

Cheers guys, but mums keeps saying " he's moving in and that's that!". Now she says I should go out with him for a day. She must be joking right . There is no ways I'm doing that

[Caver]

Have a private word with your mum,
saying you think shes doing everything too quickly and its hard for you to handle.

[TeddyBearRock]

i sis that and she staed crying. WTF, so i walked off in a mood