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Riku16
February 17th, 2012, 02:31 PM
Help me, as the title suggests I need help, I have the biggest crush on my friend andrew, and I want to ask him out but I don't know how to go about it, should i just ask him out? Or is there something i need to do first? Help Meeee

northskater110
February 17th, 2012, 02:41 PM
Just ask him out. I know it sounds stupid, but just do it!

Desuetude
February 17th, 2012, 02:54 PM
No I just think theres anything else you need to do to go about it and im assuming he's gay/bi. You just need to find a moment when you're alone with him so he wont feel pressured with what to say. Just go for it and good luck!

Riku16
February 17th, 2012, 03:02 PM
Thank you, I think I'll wait for the appropriate time, you helped, thanks x :)

Riku16
February 17th, 2012, 03:31 PM
and im assuming he's gay/bi.

Oh, and i Don't know tbh.

TeddyBearRock
February 17th, 2012, 07:18 PM
Well if you don't know, don't ask. It is a bad move if he. Is str8. If if he is bi/ gay go right ahead and good luck

Jupiter
February 17th, 2012, 07:20 PM
wait.

didnt you just say in another thread that you were having casual sex with "charlie?"

Riku16
February 17th, 2012, 07:36 PM
me and charlie kind of just stopped

Jupiter
February 17th, 2012, 07:38 PM
you wrote it today.

Riku16
February 17th, 2012, 07:41 PM
yes, but, it's not an actual relationship, there's no emotional connection, it's just sex, and i'm gonna put a stop to it before i ask this guy out

Desuetude
February 18th, 2012, 08:00 AM
Oh, and i Don't know tbh.

Right, you might want to clear that up before you go ask a supposedly straight guy out. How awkward would that be. Just casually drop it into a conversation.

yes, but, it's not an actual relationship, there's no emotional connection, it's just sex, and i'm gonna put a stop to it before i ask this guy out

Thats good that you're going to put a stop to it. But does "charlie" know that, he might think there's something between you. it's not just your feeling that matter in this, you have to think about the other people as well.

Riku16
February 18th, 2012, 08:04 AM
no, charlie knows, i think its more experimenting than anything, and thanks. I'll ask him on monday.

TeddyBearRock
February 18th, 2012, 08:44 AM
Well just make sure you clear everything up with "Charlie" and Andy before anything serious happens

monkeydo
February 18th, 2012, 10:51 AM
Yeah, definitely find out if he's interested in guys first otherwise it could really mess up your friendship. But if he is, then go for it.