I Need advice.

[Liam55]

(im 14 )i slept at my best mates house last weekend and it was late and my friend fell asleep. his sister came in whos 16 and she started to play fight with me, she sat on top of me and i got a boner. she would move and she started to touch my penis and we had oral sex. my friend was still in the room and i dont know if he saw or heard because he wont text me back and he wouldnt answer my call. whatshould i do?

[babolat96]

I mean, I would ask his sister if he knew or not, because if he didn't know, you wouldn't have to bring it up unless you want to. If he knows, I would go see him in person and talk about it/apologize.

[Diverperry]

talk it out in person. and for future reference, go to a different room to assure privacy

[Liam55]

i didnt mean for it to happen at all, she basiclly done it all. i couldnt just say no tho :s

[Scotland]

Go talk to him in person about it, or if you can contact his sister she's bound to know if he knows or not.

And just for reference, you can always say no :).

-Scotland

[Electra Heart]

Um... I would try to find out why he isn't talking to you and if he knows just kind of talk it out...

[randomme]

try and find out if he knows without asking if he knows if he doesn't i wouldn't mention it

[mfupi2]

and i dont know if he saw or heard because he wont text me back and he wouldnt answer my call.

Well first I'd try to find out what he knows. The way I'm picturing what happened going down, I can't imagine that he could really be oblivious to the two of you getting it on in the same room as him. Being that quiet is... unusual. How you go about that will take some finesse. Start with his sister, I suppose.

Secondly, just talk it out with him. Tell him what happened without a guilty conscience. Yes, it's going to be awkward, but to fix your friendship, that's the price you have to pay for getting sucked on by his sister.

[senior.2013]

Talk to him about it. It will be awkward but its better to be friends. And for the future [if it continues] dont do it right in front of him.

[Boroboii]

Bit bad considering ingestion your best mate, but talk to him in person to resolve the issue

[jamesscott]

iwould just go talk to him and sort it out

[twinkies11]

since he isn't really responding to your texts, you are gonna have to ask him about it in person like most people have said. it is better to do it this way anyways. and if u can talk to his sister, ask if her bro is acting weird or different around her too and see if she knows anything. Hope for the best.

[TeddyBearRock]

Contact his sister. Ask her if he know. If he doesn't tell her never to bring it up again and that you are going to tell him what happend

[dkp123]

just text him and ask him if he has fallen out with you?.. if you get no response, ask him in person.. but don't bring the bit with his sister up.. let him bring it up..

it's pointless bringing it up, if he doesn't already know..

[Short Circuit]

I find it hard to believe that he was in the same room and did not hear what was going on, I mean, play fighting and he did not wake up???

IF he did not wake up, and he is now not speaking to you, I would assume that his sister told him what went on, but it has nothing to do with him anyway

[Auzzie 94]

He probably did hear you but seriously if he's not answering your calls he's an idiot. Make the point of saying "If I had a really really attractive sister and she did that to you, you would go through with it. It's natural"... I once actually liked, and dated a mate's sister and he hated me for it, I told him dude.. I can't help who I fall for... eventually he understood.

[Jstr]

-_-
I think it's best if you talk to him
or just stop being friends with him becuase you did have sex with his sister and I don't think he's happy about that.

[KidImage]

If you didn't give her consent, its rape.

[chubbi]

Having Fellatio with your friends sister can get both of you into a foster home and all of you into mandatory counseling,your friend is probably scared to death and no longer wants to be involved with you[/B]

[Trombonist72]

Dude that is so awesome. Who needs that guy when you can go bang his sister?

[mfupi2]

Having Fellatio with your friends sister can get both of you into a foster home and all of you into mandatory counseling,your friend is probably scared to death and no longer wants to be involved with you[/B]

Wrong on many different areas.

First, foster homes are for placing minors with parents who cannot provide a safe home for them. It has nothing to do with what their minor children have done with their genitals.

Secondly, who, may I ask, will be mandating this counseling you speak of? I have not heard anything to suggest that anyone has the authority to mandate counseling. As an aside though, he posted the thread looking for advice, aka "counsel," so what would be so bad about counseling??

Thirdly, the age of consent in the UK was reduced to 16 in November 2000, unless he's in northern Ireland. Secondly, in the majority of jurisdictions around the world, age of consent laws are for the protection of adolescents from non-minors. They do not exist to punish horny teenagers who have gotten a blow job or whatever. Even more strict areas, such as California, have "Romeo & Juliet" exceptions to provide for horny teenagers to get it on.