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fxbreaker
February 17th, 2012, 01:00 AM
So yeah I'm a senior in high school and it seems like only freshman girls like me..
I actually dated a freshman this school year and it didn't really work out..her mom didnt like me because I was older and had forbidden a relationship between us, but we did in secret and that was a disaster because we had to act like "just friends" a lot of the time, and the girl was just immature relationship-wise.

Theres another girl recently that is so obvious she likes me I kinda feel bad for her in a way because she is making it so easy. She had her friends tell me she likes me and she tries hard to make conversation with me and gets all shy and stuff, its kind of cute I guess. And she got all excited when I offered her my number. I'm kind of attracted to her but her "easiness" kind of detracts from that.

AND another girl that when I first moved to my current location had saw me at the community rec center when my family came in to sign up..and I saw her talking to all the lifeguards at the pool looking at me and stuff and kind of watching me from afar. I befriended her awhile ago and just recently we started talking more and she even told me that she asked the front desk woman what my name was. I think it was kind of cute to be honest. She told me today when we were hanging out that she wants to tag along with me at lunch and stuff (I usually roam around talking to different people).
I don't know if this girl likes me anymore but she seems really friendly.

I dont know it just seems like all these freshman chicks like me. I'm 18 and I'm a senior but EVERYONE tells me I look way younger..and the fact that I'm in a few sophmore level classes doesnt help.

It seems like these girls are easy game for me and makes me kind of feel bad...they're really nice girls so its hard not to like them back. I'm friends with girls that are seniors and juniors as well but they don't seem to like me..or more likely they are the traditional, less-obvious-that-they-like-you type.



Any advice for me guys?

AUS01
February 17th, 2012, 06:24 AM
Could you just tell me how old a "Freshman" is. We don't use that in Australia. That will help me with my hopefully somewhat helpful advice :)

Mortal Coil
February 17th, 2012, 09:36 AM
Could you just tell me how old a "Freshman" is. We don't use that in Australia. That will help me with my hopefully somewhat helpful advice :)

That's year 10 for you. 14-15 years old.

Freshman girls always go for seniors, it's really not a big deal. The thing is that girls are more mature, generally, than guys of the same age, so girls go for older guys. They probably think you're a good target because you're older so more mature, but look young and are enrolled in sophomore level classes so won't make them feel stupid or overly young.
If you don't like it, go out and find a gf outside of school. It's a bit more difficult to manage, but it's also easier to find someone and less awkward when you break up.

Donkey
February 17th, 2012, 09:39 AM
a lot of girls like the idea of a more mature guy. If you don't like the idea of a less mature girl, just don't act interested. I mean giving her your number when you dont' really like her was kinda leading her on, i wouldn't do that

Desuetude
February 17th, 2012, 10:10 AM
Like said above girls like guys who are more mature which is why as you get older you dont often see girls and boys from the same year dating. Don't feel bad about it, it's just how the system works i guess but if you honestly don't like them then don't lead them on, just tell them. They'd appreciate that more than finding out weeks later that there is no chance that you'd go out with them.
If you want to go out with some girls that are seniors then ask them. Dont just sit there hoping that the next one will be older, take the matter into your own hands.

AUS01
February 17th, 2012, 05:42 PM
I guess the only thing is that you will probably end up marrying someone with an age diference. For Example, my Grandfather is 91 and my Grandmother, 83. At this age, it seems like such a large difference to be dating someone with that much of an age difference, and is probably illegal. But When you are older that seems normal, even a particularly small age difference. If you like her, stay friends with her, for potentially down the track, but at this age, dating someone of that age difference could be considered wrong.