Confused about being bisexual or not...

[Xboxboy96]

Hey, I'm a 15 year old boy.

I like girls a lot, I have a vision in my head of the girl that I want to be with when I'm older.

But recently, and now that I think of it this has been happening for a while: I seem to find young boys around 8-14 attractive but not girls, I find ALL girls on my school ugly in a way. The girl that I really like is 13 IN SIX MONTHS, yes, she is still 12, as you see I don't really like girls aged 14-18 but I do like girls aged 12-13 or over 18 sometimes.

I don't like boys over 14, I don't plan on ever being in a relationship or having sex with a man when I'm older thigh right now of a 12-14 year old did ask me to I would actually say yeah...

Now, I don't mind not having sex with a girl before I'm 18, but I do when it comes to boys. I want to have sex, or any sort of above feeling relationship with a boy before I'm 18. Maybe this is because Im shy and don't have a lot of friends, or even a best friend, maybe I'm just looming for that best friend? I don't know I just need someone else to talk to about this.

[scottnesss]

from what i gather, it seems that you are going through the normal process of being a teenager. the easiest way to see if you are gay/bi, is to imagine yourself in a long term relationship with a boy, if you can then the chances are, your bi/gay, if not then you are curious :) x

i hope i was of some help x

[Xboxboy96]

Well I just tried that.

With a BOY, yes I could. With a man when I'm older, no.

With a girl, no. With a women, yes.

:S

[scottnesss]

right, you need to remove the distinction of age. males yes or no? females, yes or no?

[Xboxboy96]

That's the thing though, I only seem to like younger boys... Not men. So I can imagine being in a long term relationship with a boy, just not a man.

[Xboxboy96]

:s ...

[Human]

from what i gather, it seems that you are going through the normal process of being a teenager. the easiest way to see if you are gay/bi, is to imagine yourself in a long term relationship with a boy, if you can then the chances are, your bi/gay, if not then you are curious :) x

i hope i was of some help x


what he said

[sieg]

dude you need help, 8-14?!! just messing with you, to each their own. as for your problem, then just wait. no one is expecting you to go out and get nailed when your 15, the jersey shore may make it seem like that, but seriously just wait. I dig this 14 year old boy, "andy" and him and i are going out and plan to get married, but no sex before highschool. just take things slow, ya know?

[ImCoolBeans]

Err... I don't really think that your age preference is okay. You're pretty much saying that you have a thing for children, which is not really okay. I think you might need to try to break these thoughts your having because they certainly could land you in a pretty bad situation down the line.

[Brucem]

Had the same probs when I was your age matey. Don't worry, your sexual preferences change as you grow and mature :)

Just watch what your doing, don't want to dig a hole that u can't get out of, if you know what I mean ^^

[KidImage]

Every guy even if they don't admit it have been curious at a point. I was very curious when I first went on this site :P I was curious as not kissing but experimenting comparing and shit but it was just a phase so nothing to worry about. But yes change the age of people you mess with, you don't want people to think your a pedo.

[Camazot]

your age preference is very weird personally i believe that as a teanager the limits of age difference is two years below or above you. just so u dont get into trouble dont mess with any one younger than u by 3 years