Gay bro fancies my friend

[kaiba]

Well the tile says it all really...

I don't really know what to do or feel exactly, my 19yr old brother who i get on with great is gay and always has been and it's fine. But i think he fancies one of my friends who is also gay, I'm not sure i like the idea of him being with or doing anything with my friend and it would just be very weird and awkward for everyone.

What do i do?

[DerBear]

Nothing you can "do", why do you think he fancies your gay friend, have you seen any of the "signs" or is it just because both are gay that you think this.

You may just be worrying over nothing here.

But like i said there really is nothing you can do

[kaiba]

No they seriously gush over each other its horrible...i tried talking to my bro but he said its nothing to worry about but still idk

But i guess if it happens it happens :(

[Desuetude]

Its their decision really, it might be awkward if they do get together but you're just going to have to live with it. Just try and act as best you can about it and im sure they'd both appreciate it.

[Stronger]

I don't see why it is a problem? He can't help it if he has a thing for him. Just tell him, if you dat him, save the kissing and w/e and do i privately if it bothers you that much. Nothing more can be said.

[Gizzie]

Question: If you had a Older straight sister who was in love with you straight friend and the feeling was mutual would you react the same way???

[Donkey]

don't try to control shit man, they are two individuals. Just let them do what they do. Sometimes it's frustrating but it's the way it's gotta be - if you don't, you are a control freak and suddenly you dont have any friends

[scottnesss]

it may be awkward for you, but if they fall in love, as a friend and a brother, surely you wouldnt want to stop them? and at any rate, it is none of your business if they do like each other. they are human; you cant help who you fall for.