View Full Version : Masturbate with friends?
lambo640
February 15th, 2012, 09:48 AM
Hey so i'm 16 and have been masturbating since i was about 10 or 11, cant remember my first time. When i was about 12 (maybe a bit younger) one of my friends (Who i've known since we were like 3) was over my house, we were looking at porn online and it kinda came natural that we both started to jerk off... We didnt touch eachother and never have but it turned into a regular thing. It wasnt everytime we were in eachothers houses because we did that so much - lived in same street..., but most of the time we would end up jerking off. We've seen eachothers dicks obviously. It just felt kinda good to masturbate with a friend - who is as good as a brother! haha, Is this normal? Do other guys do it?
Now we're older, we dont really do it... Last year we did once but thats all since we were about 14. I want to be able to do it more often again though... I'm not gay at all.. I'm not attracted to men, it just felt better to share the experience with someone else. How should i get it started up again?
Thanks :D
Auzzie 94
February 15th, 2012, 09:59 AM
Yeah it's normal, I have never done it just with a guy friend but I have done it with a few girl friends and a guy once, but it wasn't over porn, well just got turned on and decided to masturbate together and watch each other while we do it, it was fun and really good.
If you want to start doing it again with him just say "Hey remember those times when we were young and we'd watch porn together, I miss those times" and see where it goes. You might end up doing it again. Also, try get a girl you can masturbate with to mix it up a little.
CoolGuyXD
February 15th, 2012, 10:02 AM
To answer your first question. Yes it is normal. For the second question. If you are like brothers then I would say talk to him about it. See if he remembers doing it and maybe he wants to do it again too.
Short Circuit
February 15th, 2012, 11:28 AM
I have a couple of "jerk buddies", we have been doing it for a couple of years now, and like you, we don't "do" each other, only ourselves. We don't do it all the time, maybe like once a month, but its a regular thing.
senior.2013
February 15th, 2012, 03:52 PM
Its very normal. Most teens go through a curious phase. Youre not gay unless you have an emotional attraction. Theres nothing wrong with that by the way. Its not a problem.
To get started up again, I could only suggest going over and start watching porn as you used to. If he doesnt want to do it, dont force it. Let it go as it goes.
ImCoolBeans
February 15th, 2012, 03:59 PM
Please don't ask how to get friends to masturbate with you. Since you clearly have not read the section rules (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/announcement.php?f=18&a=241), I suggest you do that soon.
5) The only sexual questions permitted, are sex-ed questions. Don't ask for techniques or ways to masturbate or have sex. Don't ask questions about how to masturbate with friends. In addition, do not post stories about sex or masturbation unless it strictly pertains to you getting help. Any types of explicit content is not allowed.
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