torry
February 14th, 2012, 09:50 PM
Okay, so. Here's my story. Me and this guy..we're very close, he loves me a lot, and we've shared a lot of firsts. I can't date him though, because we're different races and our parents won't allow us. My dad said flat out no, but my mom said it was alright, as long as I kept myself open to other guys. So a non-exclusive relationship. Of course this guy isn't too thrilled with sharing me, but that's where we are. Anyway, enter guy #2. He's very sweet, and my parents ADORE him. He just asked me out on a date, and I said yes. Guy #1 doesn't know this. Now this morning I was sure I was going to have to break up with guy # 1. I was prepared to. I distanced myself from him all day, found reasons not to hold his hand, etc. Well...my sister likes him. And guess what she found out? He was very upset today from how distant I've been acting and he told her he would want to try a relationship with her. Seems perfect right? Wrong. I've been thinking, and thinking, and..ugh I really really really still like guy #1. We're so passionate with eachother. Now, me trying to hold on to him, when my sister is there doesn't seem fair, right? Well actually..my sister has been going after this other GIRL. She's bi. And today the other girl told her that she liked her back. Ughhhh what do I do?????????? If I could have my cake and eat it too..here's the scenario: Tomorrow morning I would get guy #1 alone and tell him about guy #2, and that I have to date him so my parents will be happy, but he (guy #1) still has my heart. We've talked about me dating other guys before. I would reassure him. Or.....I could break up with him. Which I really don't want to do. Someone, please, help?