Is it over?

[runner4life]

Alright. This girl that I absolutely love with all my being (she has mutual feelings) and I have been unofficially dating for 4 years off/on now. 2 years ago, she moved away. So, we've been communicating with Skype and Text.

When I say off and on, we find it nearly impossible to date, so we were just really great friends who told eachother EVERYTHING. We took breaks every now and then but they lasted a few days max.

Last week, she told me that she thought we needed to go our separate ways and not talk anymore. I will miss her so incredibly badly. How do I save this? She seems somewhat determined but i think if I say the right things, her mind can be changed. (fingers crossed)

Girls and guys alike, advice??

[anonymous53]

Don't change her mind. It might be for the best.

[Rage of the Menace]

Mhmm, i agree with formido.

[Caver]

Tell her how much you need her and what you love about her. Say you need her and try and meet up every now and then?

[WritingAuthor]

Distance relationships normally don't work out very well as said above it might be for the best

[Rage of the Menace]

Distance relationships normally don't work out very well as said above it might be for the best

Effort. Plus, it has to be a girl you know you like, not a girl you think you like.

[Desuetude]

If you really want to save it then I think youre going to have to find some ways of seeing her more often, I mean the reason that she wants to stop talking is probably so she can move on, meet other people and stuff. Just tell her why you dont want that, why you like her and want her in your life.

But maybe as said above it's for the best that you move on. You can both get on with your lives as holding onto long distance contacts is a very had job to do. If you are willing to work on it then really you need to go.see her a lot more theres not much else we can tell you.

[TeddyBearRock]

I think it would be best if you leave her, your both finding it hard to keep the relationship going. She obviously finds it too hard to keep going, and wants to move on. You shoould do the same there are more girls out there and if you spend your life trying to keep it going, to wont meet anyone else.

[monkeydo]

I also don't think the long-distance thing really works unless you're both totally committed to it. Although, if you've been really good friends it seems it a little odd that she wants to stop talking completely. It would make more sense to just "be friends" if that's possible.