Best Friend

[Princess Ariel]

Lately my friend has been blaming everything on me, I finally after all this time got the courage to tell her why I kept on avoiding her, and not wanting to talk to her at all.
But she's claiming that I'm telling her what's been going on, just so I can cause her stress, But it's far from it.. She keeps on asking why I'm not smiling, I tell her, and she screams at me asking me why I told her, But she demanded it.
She told me on Monday that her parents are getting divorced, and she blamed it on me. As if it was my fault, and how she'd never be able to see her Dad as much as she wanted to.
Today in French class, she was yelling at me becasue apparently my opinion was wrong. She also said, in a very rude way " You know if you read the subtitles you'd know that he was doing it to bring the bird to life" But that scene had NO speaking parts..
I went to talk to the social worker at the school during the beginning of French, and she suspected me to tell her what happened. But why should I when I know what her reaction is going to be..
I don't think I can trust her any more, I told her one thing and the next day I'm getting questioned about it from another friend.. I don't think I can trust her any more..
The same thing is happening in History with the Movie we are watching (Hitler : The rise of evil)
She's saying that she feels bad for the guy becasue he was abused by his father.
But he still killed Millions of people, and she's saying that it doesn't mean a thing. That the reason he did it was because he was so abused.
Whatever I say, She seems to think that it's wrong, That everything I do and say is wrong..
Yesterday, during Math.
She flat out said "What are you still doing here? Just kill yourself already, and stop causing pain for me"

[TeddyBearRock]

For every one, parents splitting up is a tough time. Like I did and other friends we all gOt stressed, comfort her and tell her if yOu want to talk I'm here, if she yells just say your sorry and "what ever I have done to yOu I'm sorry" (I know you haven't done anything wrong but it's what she will want tO hear)

As for her comments just ignore them she doesn't mean them just take them wIth a pinch Of salt

[Princess Ariel]

For every one, parents splitting up is a tough time. Like I did and other friends we all gOt stressed, comfort her and tell her if yOu want to talk I'm here, if she yells just say your sorry and "what ever I have done to yOu I'm sorry" (I know you haven't done anything wrong but it's what she will want tO hear)

As for her comments just ignore them she doesn't mean them just take them wIth a pinch Of salt

I have several friends going through a divorce. But none of them blame it on me.. It's only her. And If I say that I'm sorry, she won't buy it.. Even if I'm genuinely sorry for something..

[Desuetude]

That's sick. What kind of "friend" says stuff like that?
You are not to bale for any of those things, she seems pretty insecure if she as to blame you for every little thing that happens. Like there has to be a reason for everything, there isn't. She probably feels better about herself when she puts others down, that's why she does it but that is not a legit reason, far from it.
Is there any way that you could get away from being friends with her, I have a feeling this is the same girl who never leaves you alone?
Is there anyone else apart from the social worker that you can talk to? Someone trustworthy that you feel comfortable telling? Anouther friend maybe. It's good to tell someone everything that's happening but just make sure its a person who will keep it to themself. You shouldnt have to apologize to her it's twisted if she has made you think that you do.
Her Hitler thing was bull, yes it matters that he was abused but not everyone that is abused in life has to start a war killing 11 million people along the way. It's not fair that she nocks you down at every opportunity she has. It's not goin to help you with anything having her in your life.
Wow that last line really got me fired up. No Cass you should not kill yourself, you should not have listen to what that bitch has got to say anymore. She is the one causing you pain and it's just not on. That girl needs to be taken down a notch.

[Princess Ariel]

That's sick. What kind of "friend" says stuff like that?
You are not to bale for any of those things, she seems pretty insecure if she as to blame you for every little thing that happens. Like there has to be a reason for everything, there isn't. She probably feels better about herself when she puts others down, that's why she does it but that is not a legit reason, far from it.
Is there any way that you could get away from being friends with her, I have a feeling this is the same girl who never leaves you alone?
Is there anyone else apart from the social worker that you can talk to? Someone trustworthy that you feel comfortable telling? Anouther friend maybe. It's good to tell someone everything that's happening but just make sure its a person who will keep it to themself. You shouldnt have to apologize to her it's twisted if she has made you think that you do.
Her Hitler thing was bull, yes it matters that he was abused but not everyone that is abused in life has to start a war killing 11 million people along the way. It's not fair that she nocks you down at every opportunity she has. It's not goin to help you with anything having her in your life.
Wow that last line really got me fired up. No Cass you should not kill yourself, you should not have listen to what that bitch has got to say anymore. She is the one causing you pain and it's just not on. That girl needs to be taken down a notch.

She follows me everywhere in school. She does not let me away from her for one second, and if we are, she's texting me non stop and then calls me if she didn't hear a reply for 4 minutes.
During school I told her to back off me, and she's all screaming at me saying that I can't tell her to do things she doesn't want to do.
I wasn't participating in pool today, she asked if I did, I said no. Her response "Go figure, Honestly Case, When do you swim?"
During Math today, Since I didn't have any food, she was yelling at me, and asking me why I didn't have any food. But get this. She wanted food off of me, for her.

[Desuetude]

Urgh god im sorry but this has gone far enough, she cant treat you like this and still expect you to treat her like a friend. Is there any way that you could stand up to her or ask her why she is doing this? Tell her to stay away from you? I know you've already told her why you did but that doesn't seem to be enough.
You could block her number on your phone if that's a problem if she asks why her texts arnt going through just make up some excuse that your phones rubbish and it's messing everything up.
Why does it matter whether you went swimming today? It doesn't and he should just keep her nose out of your business.
She seems like such a hypocrite and like I said if you why things to change I think the only thing you can do is to stand up to her or get someone else involved. Im sorry im not to much help, I wish I could be.more :-(

[Princess Ariel]

I'm scared that If i stand up to her, she'll tear me down.
I've trusted her with things that only she knows about. If I were to stand up, she'd pull a dick move and tell the whole damn school. She bullied me for years, and whenever bulling comes up she says "I bullied Casey, and I'm still so sorry for it"
But she's bulling me now.
I've been ignoring her texts, but now she's using facebook, and calling my house..
It would go to voicemail, and it would say "Casey I know your home, answer the damn phone"
On Thursday, she was actually waiting for me outside my door...
And I left earlier on Thursday.

[Desuetude]

Right, on facebook block her so she cant contact you? block a few people (people you dont generally talk to) so then she wouldn't be getting to suspisious. Block her number as well so she can't get through to your house. If you keep ingnoring her like this then hopefully she just won't bother, it might take a bit of time but surely she wont just pursue you?
I think the only options you have casey are standing up to her, ignoring her, telling someone else that could help or doing nothing. Im sorry to say but she is honestly pne of the most pathetic girls i have heard of, she is making you're life hell. I mean why? Urgh, god people like this annoy me, anyway.
So she admits to bullying you in the past and still manages to turn it round so it makes her look good or like the victim. You can't be walking on egg shells for the rest of your school life just because you don't know if she might be around the corner, it's not fair on you.
Im really sorry casey, i know sympathy isn't what you want right now but i am and i know you are probably thinking why the hell is she the one always posting but you are such a good person and i really do want to try and help <3

[Princess Ariel]

I just blocked her now.
But we are friends with the same friends, and if I block her, I won't be able to know whether or not if she's going. If she is, and I'm there. Shit WILL go down, and I'll end up in trouble with the other people in the room. She knows how to make it look like someone else did it. Even if it was clearly her fault.
I'm not sure how to block on the house phone though.

[Desuetude]

If you search it on the internet it might tell you, if not then call the company you're with and try will either do it for you or talk you through it I think.
Yeah I get that you want to know if she's going places, couldn't another friends tell you?

[Princess Ariel]

If you search it on the internet it might tell you, if not then call the company you're with and try will either do it for you or talk you through it I think.
Yeah I get that you want to know if she's going places, couldn't another friends tell you?

My friend Clare would tell me, but then she would proceed to ask me why I blocked her, and then she'll have the whole, but you shouldn't block them. are you sure her brothers didn't take them. Marco, he''ll make a lie saying she's not coming.. but she'd be their.. And with Emily, She'll say whether or not she's going to be there, but after that she'd ask me why I blocked her. I would tell her,and then she'd get Clare involved. It's this really long, and annoying loop.

[Desuetude]

Oh wow, im sorry, i dont have any more suggestions so i wont bother you with stupid ones but casey im here if you ever need someone to talk to, ever, you can always come to me. I might not always know how to help but its nice to have someone to listen and sympathise sometimes :)