help what would you do ?

[Terra100]

So im at the library my best friendis helping me out in english [he is 15] I feel like brothers with him so the library closes and we went to my house to help me with my homework [my mom knows he comes over] then we get on number ten he puts his hand on my thigh leans in and then the phone rings ''my mom said you gots to leave now'' i said then he says see ya tommorow.....l....

i want but at the same time i dont
im 5 5 he is 5 6 hazel eyes mine are a light brown kinda dark complextionmy skin is lighter cute [no homo] his voice so gentle but tough like wth something about him turns me on HE IS COMING OVER TOMMOROW WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?

[Ecxel]

Act normal, if it means something then you should talk to him

[Itsme123]

Speak to him about it

[MattiYeah]

Just see what happens bro, go with the flow :)

[Terra100]

BBUUTT the insane part is like wen he put his hand on thigh he had the hubes buldge in his pants something is telling mr to help him with that

[Ecxel]

Are you straight/bi/gay? What about him?

[Terra100]

IM straight the last time i checked he was straight like i never ever ever felt this before

[Ecxel]

Well, maybe he wants to experiment?

[Terra100]

maybe its just so strange

[Ecxel]

Just ask him what he meant by it, but first think, If he wanted to experiment would you do it too?

[Tonebone88]

It is very possible that he wants to experiment. A lot of teens have trouble discovering their sexual and he may be struggling right. Just because he hasn't told you he's gay, doesn't mean he isn't. I think that if something happens again, you should ask him what's going on. Try to make him feel like he can trust you. He might tell that he thinks he's gay or he may blow it off tell you the touch wasn't anything sexual. Either way, you should try to convince him to talk about it as it may help. After that, it's up to you. If he told you that he had wanted to experiment, you could help him out and do some stuff with him. Plus that may help you make sense if the strange attraction you feel for him. Or you could tell him that even though you want to help him, you don't feel comfortable with anything sexual.

[Terra100]

i'm going to ask him like remember yesterday when you tried to yaknow and maybe ill be able to help him and get over this madness

[senior.2013]

Go with what ever happens. Dont push it on to him, that can ruin your friendship. If he wants to try something he may do it again. If he doesnt, just move on.
Its also completely normal to find guys attractive during puberty. It doesnt mean you are homosexual. Homosexuality comes about when you find both a physical and an emotional attraction.

[Core]

Don't bring it back up unless it happens again, but if he dose it again then. On front him about it, and if u want to experement and it turns out he dose too then go for it, just be careful not to mess up ur friendship

[leafgreenangel]

just wait and see if he makes another move. Also if you do ask him about it you should consider if you are comfortable with experimenting. to me it sound like you and possibly him may be curious

[Itsme123]

Just talk about it t him. Don't keep it too yourself?

[beenthere]

I would say don't say anything, sometimes it is too much for a strait or bi curious guy to deal with. sounds to me like he is kind of asking your permission without talking, so show him your interested. Just go with it and if something does happen, then talk to him about it after. but don't push him on that ether, just let him know he doesn't need to worry about you talking to anyone, if he wants to talk more, then that's cool.

[Auzzie 94]

Talk to him about it.

[Haunted]

Don't talk to him about it, if he does it again, then respond similarly :D have fun heh heh

[LuckyLuke]

[no homo] his voice so gentle but tough like wth something about him turns me on HE IS COMING OVER TOMMOROW WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?

"No homo" kind of ends when you say he turns you on. There's nothing wrong with that but it's certainly not, "not homo".

If you want to do something, go for it. If not, tell him no but you want to be friends. Simple as that.

[Terra100]

You guys were right all i did was told him that everything that happened yesterday is the past but today he made a move

[Boroboii]

See how it goes try talk about it .. and if you want to try stuff then help eachother out

[CasualJ93]

How did it go for you?

[User Does Not Exist]

Don't talk about it ... that's just weird. If he puts the moves on and you're interested, just do whatever he does. So if he puts his hand on your thigh, put your hand even higher on his.

[Whoiskevin]

If you are turned on by him I say try it out if you both want to experiment it is perfectly normal

[KarkatLuv]

If you feel like there could be something and want to try it, pursue it, tempt him!

[Christheman]

Good luck and the best way to start it is watching porn and mutual masturbation which will tell you whether he wants to go further or not

[rokinho]

Talk to him about it.. If you're both up for it do it

[NephilimAzrael]

Well since he made a move, if u wanna, experiment

[Noah Thorpe]

IM straight the last time i checked he was straight like i never ever ever felt this before

Go with the flow :) I know this is the gayest thing to say but; You're lucky to have an unepected romance scene like that. I mean, nothing happens to me LOLOL

[Terra100]

everything between him is fine we are friends that have fun and some other fun

[BossHogg]

What did yall do??? im curious to know now :)

[CaliSublime]

If you are really straight then tell him to stop or stand up, but it kind of sounds like you enjoy it so if you do and your bi or gay then go for it, sounds like you like him too

[Frankie66]

I would just see how everything plays out

[Terra100]

i learned that i cant just let myself be hypnitize by how he looks or any other guy that comes along because i know i am never going to be emotionaly atracted to dudes.....i am only atracted to them phisically but not alot maybe only just a little less than half i have to take control of my life and do wats right

[iCookie Jar]

Not to kill the mood, but I had a friend that wanted to 'experiment', and because i was the only out gay guy in the year he thought I'd want to do it.
Turns out he completley used me and, becuase he was a propper jock, he blackmailed me for the rest of the year with it.

Be careful. You never realise how in love you are until the thing you love is gone.

[Jay_Team_Swagg]

Only time will tell

[Terra100]

I forgot to post but he said that he was sorry about yesterday and so he was like he doesn't really know if he ia ready to experiment so we didn't do anything. Sooooo kinda a raleaf but i wanted to experiment but owell at least i'm getting A's in my classes woot woo

[jtk339]

omg i wish something like that happened to me! Lol just ask him about it?

true xd

[Terra100]

Ikr i wish it did happen buuutt EPIC FAIL!!!

[zach17020]

do itttttt

[gobs10]

go for it

[SwaggaKid]

He probably just wants to experiment and seeing as you 2 are besties he thought that you would be perfect. Most guys wanna experiment gay or not

[YOUNGFLYGUY]

You should see how far it goes

[wildmanjesse]

be yourself ;)

[Zydeco]

Well, it kinda sounds like you want to experiment. And from his actions, he probably wants to as well. Just lets things go slow. I wouldn't talk to him about it.

[Sean4U]

probably both want to experiment ...need to talk about it ....been a couple months now hope it all worked out the way both of you wanted

[super storm]

if you want to experiment then just make a move

[loganbenson]

do what u are comfortable with.... that's the only answer

[tterbb]

Go for it!

[DamoMac]

Relax, be yourself and try and not think about it, just be chilled and see if anything comes of it.

[Idk what to put]

Talk to him

[Inventor2]

Dont freak out man! If you want to do it, then go ahead! If u feel nervous then just tell him you dont want t do it... Simple... Just do what u think is right

[andrew2020]

You guys should not tell a 13 year old to experiment. It is not right for anyone to do something like that and you shouldn't say "that guy wants to be experiment and maybe you should to." That is messed up and should not be suggested. Experimenting isn't good especially when it comes to sexual acts.

[RedViper]

You guys should not tell a 13 year old to experiment. It is not right for anyone to do something like that and you shouldn't say "that guy wants to be experiment and maybe you should to." That is messed up and should not be suggested. Experimenting isn't good especially when it comes to sexual acts.

It's not like they're telling him to rape him. What's the big deal? all they're saying is, if he's willing and his friend is willing, just go with the flow. I honestly don't see the problem.

Also with the lack of an emotional attraction it's most likely just hormones causing the physical attraction.

[Maximum_A]

Toll to him or go with the flow