Experimenting

[Ecxel]

:what: :what: Hey, a while ago I had 4 mates over for a sleepover and It was fun. Although 2 of them were annoying. The other 2 stayed the next day for a while. My parents were at work until late so they were there for a while. We all JO and then 1 of them left. Then me and my other friend experimented a bit, no sex but we JO together and both got naked in bed and felt eachother. We both really enjoyed it and since then hes come out as gay. Im bi (I think) and since then Ive been thinking about it, was it right and where do I go from here? :what: :what:

[Donkey]

i guess it happens sometimes man. It's kinda weird and often makes friendships feel a bit funny, but chances are if it was just about jacking off or whatever it's not really an emotional thing right. do you like him in a relationship way?

[Electra Heart]

Well there's nothing wrong with it if that's what you mean. It does kinda rip apart the friend zone a bit though. I'm assuming your asking if you should go further and I'd say yes as long as you really do like this guy and it wasn't just a fling, y'know?

[ImCoolBeans]

It's pretty common for guys going through puberty to experiment/want to experiment. If you both were comfortable with it I think that's perfectly acceptable, and you shouldn't worry about that too much. But it can make things a bit awkward here and there. And as to where you should go from this point forward, do you have emotional feelings for him, and vice versa?

[Ecxel]

I dont want a relationship, but I really liked it and im seeing him tomorrow, for the first time weve been alone since, what do I say? He says he liked it too

[ImCoolBeans]

Thats up to you. It depends where you want to go with this.

On another note, be careful how you word your questions because it appears that you sometimes are asking how to go further with him/get him to do it again, which is against the rules here.

[Thanatos]

It's really a personal thing. I JO'd with my best friend once and that was 2 years ago. We're still Best Friends, see each other all the time, and nothings awkward. Same thing with other kids I have. So if you are worried that everything will always be awkward now, I'm a testament to the opposite. Unless you make a big deal of it, its not a big deal :)

[Ecxel]

So, I saw my friend for a few hours this morning and everything was normal, It looked like it was forgotten about :D I was happy becasue although It was fun I wanted to stay the same, BUT he then text me sying he really liked me and wanted to take it further (sex I think) I dont want a relationship, but I did like experimenting? What do I do?

[Thanatos]

If you decide to take it further, but don;t want a relationship, I'd say you need to sit down and have a discussion about this. Whether what, how, and why you do things, or set ground rules.

Make sure you get it in the open that you aren't looking for a relationship.

[nicnicolas1]

yeah its pretty normal to expirement, ive done it myself and im bi

[Matt_is_Awesome]

Its common me and my friends just jerked together and compared sizes before and we are like closer than ever im going on this trip with my school kids and me and my 3 friends are sleeping over together in the hotel hope it happens again it was fun lol

[Tonebone88]

If you decide to take it further, but don;t want a relationship, I'd say you need to sit down and have a discussion about this. Whether what, how, and why you do things, or set ground rules.

Make sure you get it in the open that you aren't looking for a relationship.

This is really good advice. Tell him hat you are still exploring you sexuality and di t want be in a relationship

[obvious]

you gotta do it in ur own time and do what's right for u...