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Ecxel
February 14th, 2012, 04:55 AM
Hey, a while ago I had 4 mates over for a sleepover and It was fun. Although 2 of them were annoying. The other 2 stayed the next day for a while. My parents were at work until late so they were there for a while. We all JO and then 1 of them left. We experimented a bit, no sex but we JO together and kind of kissed naked in bed, were both bi. Since then we havent spoken and hes got other friends to hang around with. What does this mean?
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MattiYeah
February 14th, 2012, 09:37 AM
Maybe he doesn't know what to say to you about it? Give it some time & be casual about it. Seems a little bit like he was experimenting and now feels a bit awkward.

dkp123
February 14th, 2012, 09:57 AM
maybe he just found the situation abit weird, just talk to him about it.. or text him asking if he has fallen out with you?

CoolGuyXD
February 14th, 2012, 10:27 AM
He could feel a little weird around you. Just talk to him and ask him if you guys are still friends and if you guys are cool with each other.

Whoiskevin
February 14th, 2012, 07:44 PM
he probably is confused I say you should go talk to him and say hi casual conversation and when alone share your thoughts on what you did with him and get his thoughts too

matt25
February 14th, 2012, 08:00 PM
maybe you've just drifted apart. it happens

ImCoolBeans
February 14th, 2012, 08:39 PM
Your friend may just feel a little weird about what happened, which is a normal response. You should give him a little space. I don't think he'll avoid you forever. If things don't seem to go back to normal in the next few days try talking to him about it. Tell him that if he's not comfortable with it, that it does not need to happen again.

senior.2013
February 14th, 2012, 08:40 PM
Could be you drifted apart. It could be hes feeling a little awkward. Try talking to him. The only thing with experimenting is that it can make you stronger or break you down.

beenthere
February 15th, 2012, 01:17 PM
It is very normal, in the heat of the moment a lot of things can happen. Lots of strait guys are bi curious, Usually the biggest fear for them is being labeled, but also he probably freaked out when he thought about it later. Give him some space, but let him know it is just stupid s**t and he should not let it hurt your friendship.

clay morrow
February 15th, 2012, 01:58 PM
a simerlar thing happend with me and my friend we used to be really close but since having sexual contact we are not as close and hardley ever see or speak to each other these things happen i feel really bad becuase he was my best mate and if it had not have happend we may still be as close as we were then

Haunted
February 15th, 2012, 02:34 PM
he probably doesn't know what to say. After me 'n one of my mates experimented I wondered what he would do next time we saw each other. I talked to him on a different subject, but as if nothing weird happened the night before. We're still cool, he still texts me(:

Boroboii
February 15th, 2012, 08:00 PM
He will be feeling awkward and have mixed emotions, that's how me and a mate felt. But we are fine now :)