cancer.

[Jupiter]

my father has cancer. we just found out about it today. it is in his esophagus. i have to stay strong for my family.

this really fucking sucks.

if only people knew that i can't make the 139$ payment to school at the moment, god. i might not be here that often for a while guys... and i might have to stop coming all together.

i will miss you guys while im gone, get ahold of me if you need, i'll try to stay on as long as possible.

[shadowhunter320]

im really sorry to hear this...i dont really know what to say, im sorry... and im gonna miss you.

[Jupiter]

I just cannot believe this is happening. I mean, it's almost like its not really happening. It's like a dream. An awful dream.

[Stronger]

Eric, I am so sry to hear this, I feel your pain, (mom and grandma had and has cancer) if you wanna talk, you know how to reach me <3, I hope your father gets better <3

[Jupiter]

thanks man.

i really appreciate the help that i have received.



oh spite me.

[Eclipsical]

wow..that's pretty awful. Smoker?

Stay positive.

[Jupiter]

yeah he is.

[Eclipsical]

yeah he is.

:-/

Yeah that'll do it.

The good thing is they have lots of options and I'm sure he's a relatively young guy.

[Borxar]

I'm so sorry Eric and I will pray for your family. I hope your dad is able to recover and that all financial needs will be met. Stay strong bro!

[Jupiter]

Thank you so much, I really need it.

+rep.

[Matt_is_Awesome]

Stay Strong Bro...You Will Get Through This Difficult Time... Good Luck Bro

[DerBear]

I would say I am sorry to hear this and I am but, I hate saying it because you have probably had 50 people saying it already.

I hope your dad is okay.
Focus on your family.
Stay strong
Best of Luck

[Caver]

Sorry to hear :/ hopefully things will get better

[Steve Jobs]

All the best!!

[Jupiter]

an update. he is okay.

the cancer has not spread, it is in one tumor. they are taking that out soon.

and it's all free, cuz he's a veteran.

[DerBear]

an update. he is okay.

the cancer has not spread, it is in one tumor. they are taking that out soon.

and it's all free, cuz he's a veteran.

I think when it comes to the US welfare they should have a system like this because I have herd and known many people that have fallen to the american health care giant, They acutally reject people treatment and I think that is sick.

I am glad your dad will be okay

All the best for his recovery

Derri

[Steve Jobs]

an update. he is okay.

the cancer has not spread, it is in one tumor. they are taking that out soon.

and it's all free, cuz he's a veteran.

Couldn't have done it without our posts :yeah::wub::wub::wub::yeah::yeah::wub::lol:

[Stronger]

an update. he is okay.

the cancer has not spread, it is in one tumor. they are taking that out soon.

and it's all free, cuz he's a veteran.

I'm glad it didn't spread, keeping your family in my thoughts

[Borxar]

That is great news man! They should be able to remove the cancer and then it will take some time monitoring his body, but I trust that he will be ok :) I'm sure it being free is great news too :) Hang in there man! and its no problem if you ever need to talk about anything, I'm here for ya man!

[ImCoolBeans]

Eric, I'm really sorry to hear about all of this. I know what it's like to have a parent with cancer. Both my mother and father have had cancer and there have been a lot of complications and misfortunes to fuel the fire along the way.

You know that I'm always here for you no matter what, and whether you need advice, or just somebody to listen to you - all you need to do is let me know. I'm glad to help in any way I can.

Stay strong, your dad is in my thoughts.

[Jupiter]

I think when it comes to the US welfare they should have a system like this because I have herd and known many people that have fallen to the american health care giant, They acutally reject people treatment and I think that is sick.

I am glad your dad will be okay

All the best for his recovery

Derri

we are so lucky it is like that, or else we would be in a lot of trouble. thanks for all the support you have shown.

Couldn't have done it without our posts

or my prayers... i have been moping around lately, however, now i think today should be better.

I'm glad it didn't spread, keeping your family in my thoughts

thank you so much, brandon. it means a lot.

It's great to hear that the cancer was discovered before it spread... and it won't take a financial toll on your family either. Hopefully the procedure goes well :)

Be sure to keep us updated, we're hear for ya if you need anything.

i will keep you updated, and i know. it was so scary, and then i thought... wait, aren't hospital bills paid already if he served in the service?

That is great news man! They should be able to remove the cancer and then it will take some time monitoring his body, but I trust that he will be ok :) I'm sure it being free is great news too :) Hang in there man! and its no problem if you ever need to talk about anything, I'm here for ya man!

thank you so much, and speaking of free, this should be my seventy-odd some number of days being free. i almost cut this morning, but i luckily threw the blade down at the last second.

Eric, I'm really sorry to hear about all of this. I know what it's like to have a parent with cancer. Both my mother and father have had cancer and there have been a lot of complications and misfortunes to fuel the fire along the way.

You know that I'm always here for you no matter what, and whether you need advice, or just somebody to listen to you - all you need to do is let me know. I'm glad to help in any way I can.

Stay strong, your dad is in my thoughts.

Thank you so much Mike, it really means a lot. I have been going through hell the past few months, and it's nice to know that I'm not the worst off, and I can still help. Although lots of times I have to remember that I also need help. That would be a defect of mine, not thinking I need help.

Thank you so much.




A note to everyone who read this post----even if you didn't post.

Thank you so much, it means too much to even describe to know that people read my posts and that some care enough to post back. This is a hard concept to get my mind around, and it was like when I got the news that I was standing on a buoy in the middle of a hurricane. And now there are people around me holding me up. I can't imaging life without this website. Thanks, to everyone.

[Breakeven]

aww hope everything gets better for u hun x

[Desuetude]

Hey I haven't really spoken to you and its a personal subject so I didn't want to post right away.

Im so glad the cancer hasn't spread, just think positively dont dwell on the coulds and maybes. Your dad will be back on his feet in no time!
Like I said, we haven't talked but I've seem lots of your posts and you seem cool so im here for you if you need to talk. Good luck

[TeddyBearRock]

Hey man, we dont really know each other but i see you now and then in the chatroom but you could use the company. Hope your dad gets better and keep me informed if anything happens.

Hope your ok.

[PoseidonX43]

Eric, i know your going through a tough time right now in your life, were everything goes wrong, don't ever give up, have faith in yourself, and your dad, and your family.

I'll be praying for you and your family!

if you need anything you know were to contact me :hug:

[Jupiter]

well...

he got home. the cancer is gone. but.. he went back like 2 hours ago because he might have an infection.

[CuriousDestruction]

-hugs- I hope everything turns out okay. Stay strong love.

[Jupiter]

thanks guys. it means a lot

[Stronger]

well...

he got home. the cancer is gone. but.. he went back like 2 hours ago because he might have an infection.

Glad to hear the cancer is gone, but hope he doesnt have an infection, still praying, stay strong Eric :)

[Love.Hate]

Im glad to hear they have removed it, im here if you ever need anyone :)

Hope he will be okay, stay strong

[Jupiter]

thanks fran.

[Jupiter]

sorry to double post, but i do have to add that he will be getting chemo therapy. once a day for 4-6 weeks. o: but at least he is getting better. :) but then he is supposed to feel really sick because of the chemo :( but, he's bald so he isn't gonna lose any hair, or any that i can see anyway :P

but in all seriousness, he is getting better, and he starts his chemo on.. today? or monday.

[Mortal Coil]

At least it's not going to be at your family's expense.
I'm not glad that your dad has cancer, but at least he's going to be okay, right?
Love from afar,
~Alex

[Jupiter]

thanks so much alex.

[Erasmus]

Hey Eric, good luck to you, your dad, and your family. He'll get through it,don't worry! Daniel.

[NotASpyingRent]

my father has cancer. we just found out about it today. it is in his esophagus. i have to stay strong for my family.

this really fucking sucks.

if only people knew that i can't make the 139$ payment to school at the moment, god. i might not be here that often for a while guys... and i might have to stop coming all together.

i will miss you guys while im gone, get ahold of me if you need, i'll try to stay on as long as possible.

I am so sorry to hear that your father has esophageal cancer. No matter how strong an individual has been brought up to be, situations like this are extremely hard to handle. Luckily, in some instances, esophageal cancer is not fatal. As for the school payment, you should speak to an administrator or a counselor. All individuals in the US (and hopefully almost every other industrialized nation) are entitled to a free an appropriate education. Monetary dues should not be a deciding factor in the quality of one's learning. If you speak to your school, the should ideally have some sort of fund available to help relieve dues associated with education, if not solve it completely. I hope your father's condition improves! Early detection is the key! If you have any questions AT ALL, please feel free to message me. I am here for you.

[Jupiter]

FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just when everything was going great with my life, something had to happen. my dad is going to die.

the radiation treatments, since they are supposed to be in the center of the esophagus, so it could ruin his heart, lungs, spine, and ironically enough cause swallowing issues, which is why he went into the treatments in the first place. so, if he takes the treatments, his heart won't last very long.

but if he doesn't take the treatments, well, he still has stage 3 cancer. so, there is an 88% chance that he will die without the treatments. and with them, well, it's just too much to add up.

i love you daddy :(

and sorry for bumping this a lot, i just want to keep you guys updated.

[Magenta]

Eric, I am so sorry. I honestly know nothing about cancer other than it's not good. That sounds stupid, I know. But I just wanted you to know you are always more than welcome to get in touch with me whenever you need it if you just want someone to listen or offer virtual hugs.

:hug:

Anytime, promise.

[Jupiter]

thanks jo <3

[Stronger]

Oh Eric, I am so sorry to hear that, about your father. I wish cancer never existed, it's a horrible thing, but if you need someone to talk to, let me know. :hug: <3

[dead]

Ask about surgery to the doctors. I hope things are okay. Don't lose faith.

[Princess Ariel]

If you need anybody to talk to, PM me okay?
:hug:

[BrassMonkey]

Dude, I know what you are going through. My dad had Bladder Cancer last year, and we thought it was the worst for him. After several test, we found out it was the a good case (other than not having caner), and they were able to cut out the cancer after a few months of treatments. Times got and still are tough for us. So far, he is cancer free. I', sorry to hear about that, I wish all of you the best of luck. Much Respect for You'all.

[Smeagol]

I'm really sorry for your family. Cancer is a terrible menace, my great grandpa died of stomach cancer...

If you need to talk, feel free to PM me :hug: Stay strong Eric, and I wish the best of luck to your father.

[Jupiter]

thanks
<3

[BrassMonkey]

Sure Thing (:

[Iris]

I hope things work out for you and your dad. Stay strong, you can get through this :heart:

[Desuetude]

Eric, you know i'm always here for you. I'm so sorry you and your family are having to go through this. All you can do is hope, I know it feels impossible but try to stay a little positive. It seems as though you're really close, a relationship like that, no matter how long it lasts, can never be forgotten. Spend time with him, make sure they're happy moments I don't doubt that they won't be.
You'll get through this Eric, i'm not saying it won't be hard but you'll come out stronger on the other side. Don't lose faith though, he's still with you and that's what counts. :console:

[Weeping_Angel]

Eric, I know we haven't chatted much, but if you ever need to talk, you can always PM me. I understand what you are going through. My grandmother, one of the only people I had trusted, died of lung cancer 3 years ago.

[Jess]

FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just when everything was going great with my life, something had to happen. my dad is going to die.

the radiation treatments, since they are supposed to be in the center of the esophagus, so it could ruin his heart, lungs, spine, and ironically enough cause swallowing issues, which is why he went into the treatments in the first place. so, if he takes the treatments, his heart won't last very long.

but if he doesn't take the treatments, well, he still has stage 3 cancer. so, there is an 88% chance that he will die without the treatments. and with them, well, it's just too much to add up.

i love you daddy :(

and sorry for bumping this a lot, i just want to keep you guys updated.

I'm so sorry Eric :( couple years ago I got a shock when my dad's dad got cancer, but he survived. I hope things work out for you. if you ever need to talk, I'll be here *hugs* :console:

[Coolboi]

boy I feel the pain as u no bout my mom . so sad lol hope he makes it through it . boy o boy thanks for your support an I'm here for you . just to talk or venting what ever you need . all the luv to u and your family  be strong an help all u can ! the saying
I LOVE YOU DADDY made me cry I'm going to hug mine right now and everyone reading this should to ! Eric be tough !!!!

[Thunduhbuhlt]

my father has cancer. we just found out about it today. it is in his esophagus. i have to stay strong for my family.

this really fucking sucks.

if only people knew that i can't make the 139$ payment to school at the moment, god. i might not be here that often for a while guys... and i might have to stop coming all together.

i will miss you guys while im gone, get ahold of me if you need, i'll try to stay on as long as possible.

I am very sorry...come find me if you want to, I will talk...

Please stay as long as possible, I would hate to see you go.

And be strong. Cancer is hard, but it's beatable. Love your dad like never before. Love has been proven to help treat cancer.

And you know what they say, it's always darkest before dawn. :console:

[Erasmus]

Eric, I'm so sorry. I know what you're going through; my grandfather died of cancer. I'm here for you! :hug:

[Jamesons12]

Hi friends,
cancer is very dangerous disease for our health mostly peoples in this world are died because of this virus it directly attacked on our any sensitive part of body and destroy it.
we should advice with our doctor to save form this disease.
thanks

[DerBear]

See this is the one of the most traumatic things anyone can go through and it is incredibly tough on the loved ones.

You need to stay strong. It will be hard. The best thing you can do is try not to look at him and constantly think "he's could die" yes you need to come to terms with it and by the sounds of it you have. You just need to make sure that the time you spend with him is the best in the world.

I am truly sorry to hear this Eric I really am. No one should have to live through this at such a young age. I can only imagine the conflicting emotions you must feel at any random point in the day.

Stay strong Eric. I know you can.

If you need to talk then I am here for you.

(sorry I could not say more or anything better. I have never went through anything like this and can only imagine what you are truly going through)

[Jupiter]

i am really sorry for bringing this up over and over. but here for those who want an update...

As it turns out, when they got his tumor out, they actually spread the cancer. They say they may be able to treat him, but they give him ten years, if they can treat him. So, he either dies or gets "treated" and lives ten years. *sigh*

slow and painful. i wouldn't expect anything different.

[xXoblivionXx]

it's going to be okay Matty... PM me if you ever want to talk

[Stronger]

I am really sorry to hear that Eric...or Matty :| keep you guys in my thoughts.

[InstantSerenity]

OMG thats horrible! Stay strong love. Ive been in your place, my dad died from Lymphoma cancer a year and a half ago. I miss him like no other but Im staying strong because I know thats what he wants his little girl to do. I dont know you but Ill keep you and your dad in my prayers. God bless! Take care.