When does experimenting become being gay/bi

[spawn1998]

When does experimenting become being gay/bi because I was curious for a while, so was my friend so we have done the following together:-

slept naked together
masturbated
hand Job, given and been given one
Blow Job, Given and ben given one

i would like to know because i get hard over girls at school and like watching straight porn

[VladimirA920]

I think is normal, you are exploring , Ive done kinda the same

[decaffe]

did u like it is the real question if you did u might be bi but it youll know eventualy once all your bits and peices fall together in your mind

[Zane_MJ]

It's one of those "only you can know" situations. If you experiment, and see that you like it enough to continue those activities, you may be bi. Now, let's say you like these experiments; the next step is finding out if you are gay. Now you need to do some soul searching here. You need to ask yourself if you have any sexual and/or emotional attractions toward the opposite sex. If you don’t, I think it would be safe to say you are gay.
On a personal note, I wasn’t sure of my orientation either for a while. Sometimes I still wonder if the label, bi, fits for me. I am sexually and emotionally attracted to women, and can only imagine myself ever being in a relationship with a female. Of course, I too have done my fair share of “experimenting,” with males. I don’t have an emotional attraction to guys, and I think saying I’m sexually attracted to guys may be too much of a stretch also. I am always willing to give or receive oral from a guy, but I don’t necessarily find guys attractive. It’s just that I like the pleasure of sex, and I don’t care what gender is doing the pleasing.
I always tell myself at the end of the day, that whatever I am, that’s just who I am and that’s the way it is. Being confused is normal, and you have time to figure it out. Just remember not to stress over it too much. The answers to important questions sometimes take a while to figure out. I hope this gives you some idea and you find it helpful.

[nicnicolas1]

you might just be curious or even bi, try things with girls to see if you like that more

[beenthere]

there is no line that you cross that makes you gay. experimenting is normal. i would just tell you to keep an open mind and dont lable yourself now. things can change later, but you have to be open to it when it comes your way. your still pretty young so you dont need to be in a rush. it will happen on its own. you just have to be open to it and see what happens.

[dkp123]

It doesn't become gay, it's called experimenting for a reason.
You can only consider yourself gay or bi-sexual if you would ever have a full-time relationship with a guy..

[sieg]

you're bicurious, it's just a phase. be happy bro, peace.

[jamesscott]

I think expirementing becomes gay or bi when u become emotonally in love with the same sex

[nicnicolas1]

its not your experimenting unless you both decide to date i guess

[honeybear]

I think it stops being experimental when you stop doing it because you are curious and start doing it because you want to do it...either way there's nothing wrong with it

[Electra Heart]

I suppose it does whenever you are sure that you are physically and emotionally attracted to both sexes equally or only your same sex.

[Daracon]

You are just exploring yourself bro, I would say that you were bi if you wanted to date another man and are emotionally and physically attracted to other guys.

[Jdawg91]

It stops become experimenting when you have exhausted all experimentation's.

[Mysterious Skin]

You know that experimenting is developing into something more when you look up at the guy/ girl and see yourself in their arms.

Sorry for the seriousness.

[malkyffc]

When does experimenting become being gay/bi because I was curious for a while, so was my friend so we have done the following together:-

slept naked together
masturbated
hand Job, given and been given one
Blow Job, Given and ben given one

i would like to know because i get hard over girls at school and like watching straight porn

i'm the same matt, i have been told i'm bi and also curious

[Stronger]

When it gets to the point of constantly doing it and once you like 18+ then its just like sex and stuff

[miamikid786]

I've received and gave a blow job
jerked off with this one guy
and kissed a guy once
i wanna do moree xD ^.^

[nick.g.johnson]

I would say anything where you touch each other is a bit more than experimenting. Not saying your def gay/bi but to just brush it off as experimenting isn't right, its probably likely u are gay/bi then

[xDILLIGAFx]

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[Bytefox]

Sexuality is a funny thing, people often forget about what sexuality IS and what is IS NOT.

Being gay means that you are "romantically attracted to men"
Being straight means that you are "romantically attracted to women"

So if you're having sex with a man or exchanging blow jobs, that does NOT make you gay. You're only gay if you are attracted to him and have feelings of a romantic nature towards him.