beebs
February 13th, 2012, 05:14 AM
So me and my best mate had a massive argument yesterday. She has real bad anger issues and i know that, but she really upsets me when shes like that. And she says im trying to make her look like the bad guy, even though ive done nothing. So what happend was;
My bestfriend lives ages away from me, and tuesday she and another friend who lives near her were planning on coming to mine. Me and the other friend were talking and thought it might be easier for me to go there and go out for a meal together.
So i asked the bestfriend if she wanted to do that insted. And she totally flipped out, saying id made arrangments behind her back, and that i only cared about myself. She was saying i shouldnt have changed the plans, even though we hadent, we were asking if she wanted to.
And now shes refused to see us, for the whole holiday. This means i wont see her for 2 months. Shes my fucking bestfriend.
She does this alot. And im sick of it, shes driven me and the other friend to self harm because shes upset us so much. Im not going to see the other friend now, because of this.
Some of you might say, leave her find new friends. but she is the only true friend i have ever had, shes always there for me. Its just when shes angry thats the problem, i cant calm her down, no on can.
So please what can i do?
My bestfriend lives ages away from me, and tuesday she and another friend who lives near her were planning on coming to mine. Me and the other friend were talking and thought it might be easier for me to go there and go out for a meal together.
So i asked the bestfriend if she wanted to do that insted. And she totally flipped out, saying id made arrangments behind her back, and that i only cared about myself. She was saying i shouldnt have changed the plans, even though we hadent, we were asking if she wanted to.
And now shes refused to see us, for the whole holiday. This means i wont see her for 2 months. Shes my fucking bestfriend.
She does this alot. And im sick of it, shes driven me and the other friend to self harm because shes upset us so much. Im not going to see the other friend now, because of this.
Some of you might say, leave her find new friends. but she is the only true friend i have ever had, shes always there for me. Its just when shes angry thats the problem, i cant calm her down, no on can.
So please what can i do?