family stealing money

[green]

So i get paid in cash so my mum holds onto my pay until i can get to the bank. I counted today and i am down over 400 dollars. I know its not my mum. I think its my sister. Shes the only one who would take it what can i do?

[dabram71]

Yikes, I don't know... I think probably the best thing to do would to talk with your mom and dad and maybe get your mom to find a better place to put your money before it goes into the bank?

[Kaius]

Talk to your mother about it, theres not much you can do other than going to your sister directly but i cant imagine her coming clean just like that, especially since it might not even be her.

[Desuetude]

Dont accuse your sister so quickly.
Maybe just sit everyone in your family or that could have taken it down and ask them about it. This way no one can get out of it if they're lying and they're more likely to own up.

[TeddyBearRock]

Dont blame for str8 away. you have no proof. just ask your mum then your sister see what they say, or just bring it up around her and look at how she reacts

[Steve Jobs]

Bring it up at dinnertime I'd say. Start very casual about it, like "Mum is there any more of my work money which oyu haven't deposited into my bank?" or..

[Jess]

tell your mom but as the others said, don't blame it on your sister right away

[Caver]

Discuss it with your mother,
if you see your sisters strangelly getting all these new things...

[dkp123]

just ask your mum if she know's where the other $400 is.. see how she reacts, and ask her to ask your sister.. don't blame anyone, you don't have proof