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TeddyBearRock
February 11th, 2012, 11:48 AM
First this goes into a few forums but its caused by friens and family so I put it here.

A lot has happened to me this past month, and is it pissisng me off.


Mum and Dad split up,
Moved house,
Mum got a boyfriend,
School is being a toatal waste of time,
And other things

Mum and dad split up

Well I live with me mum and spend the weekend at my dads, and when I go to my dads he asks me what the house is like and if i say one good thing about it he starts moaning about everything about it is better than his house and that annoys me. He asks me questions about what my mum is doing, we had to call the police once coz he was trying to break in. He asks questions about my mums bf and i dont know anything about him anyway and i told him that but he still askes them.

Moved House

We moved house and the house is terrable; the paint job is rubish, the carpets are filthy, the oven is crap, the hot water is boiling, the cold tap in the sink doesnt work, my room is always fucking freezing.

Mums bf
My mum has a bf and he is so annoying; he NEVER leaves me alone, he drank 6 bottles of beer last night, i have only known him for a few weeks and mum wants me to get him a birthday present and go fishing with him and i dont want to

School is a waste of time
Every day I get up at 7 for school, and it annoys me. the lessons are so boreing and i have years left of it. I do terrable at test and my GCSE are coming up. The students there are the most stuck up, dumb, imature peopel you will EVER meet.

Other Things
I have a friend and she tells me how she feels all the time, shes nice and is one of the best friends i got but it brings so down and with my life its not good. Soon i might cut my sellf. Im thinking about it but. Does it hurt? how muxh? Best place to cut?

So this thread is everything im feeling and i just had to get it out.:(:(:(:(

Desuetude
February 11th, 2012, 12:11 PM
First this goes into a few forums but its caused by friens and family so I put it here.

A lot has happened to me this past month, and is it pissisng me off.


Mum and Dad split up,
Moved house,
Mum got a boyfriend,
School is being a toatal waste of time,
And other things

Mum and dad split up

Well I live with me mum and spend the weekend at my dads, and when I go to my dads he asks me what the house is like and if i say one good thing about it he starts moaning about everything about it is better than his house and that annoys me. He asks me questions about what my mum is doing, we had to call the police once coz he was trying to break in. He asks questions about my mums bf and i dont know anything about him anyway and i told him that but he still askes them.

I know it's hard with your parents but things will start to get easier. My mum is always asking about my dad and his gf. There isn't much you can do about it i'm sorry to say, after a while it might get less frequent. Just keep telling him you don't know anything, walk away when he asks you. He is your dad and although you might not like what he does you have to live with him :(
Moved House

We moved house and the house is terrable; the paint job is rubish, the carpets are filthy, the oven is crap, the hot water is boiling, the cold tap in the sink doesnt work, my room is always fucking freezing.

Have you tried talking to them, im guessing it's your dad, they could actually do something. Don't say it all at once, just point out little things now and then. You could always get them to buy some paint and you could paint it if its bothering you that much.

Mums bf
My mum has a bf and he is so annoying; he NEVER leaves me alone, he drank 6 bottles of beer last night, i have only known him for a few weeks and mum wants me to get him a birthday present and go fishing with him and i dont want to

Just tell her that. A few weeks is nothing and she cant expect you to be best friends or you to like him. I hated my mums ex bf and i tried to tell her but she still forced me to go to his house even though it was shit cold and i hated it there. i know it's not what you want to hear but i emphisise the word EX. He probably wont be around that long but i guess you will just have to try and get to know him best you can but it's still not fair that your mum wants you to go fishing and shit, you shouldnt have to.

School is a waste of time
Every day I get up at 7 for school, and it annoys me. the lessons are so boreing and i have years left of it. I do terrable at test and my GCSE are coming up. The students there are the most stuck up, dumb, imature peopel you will EVER meet.

It is only until college, just 3 years and then you probably wont see them. They will be immature but we are young and hopefully people should grow up. GCSE's are nothing to be worried about, you have 3 years until you take them. Make the most of year 8!

Other Things
I have a friend and she tells me how she feels all the time, shes nice and is one of the best friends i got but it brings so down and with my life its not good. Soon i might cut my sellf. Im thinking about it but. Does it hurt? how muxh? Best place to cut?

Tell your friend to fuck off and leave you alone, she is being selfish and insensetive. You should have told her what you were feeling, she would have stopped telling you about hers. DO NOT CUT (i swear i've heard that somewhere before :)). it's not good, do other things to take your mind off it read, walk, look though google there are loads of ideas. Please do not start cutting, if you do then it will be all your friends fault, she would blame herself and it would be her fault. You dont need it, you are such a strong boy that has been through so much and you dont need all the shit from cutting to add to that.

So this thread is everything im feeling and i just had to get it out.

It's good to do this. it helps and if you need to talk to people you trust. they are always reaady to listen.

Salader
February 11th, 2012, 05:00 PM
Well, for the school bit, tie it like this.


Do well at school, go to university. Get a degree and then work, then get a house with proper heating :)