im hurting myself&&dunno how to stop

[*dom*]

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[Bobby]

Try to find something else you enjoy. Whether it be art,writing,excersize or bungee jumping (:P), it will be better than self-harm.

[-Silence]

If it's because of anger, try getting a punching bag that you can punch when it gets like that. Just take it all out on the punching bag, just to the point that the urge to hurt yourself goes away and you feel too tired to be angry anymore.

[Sapphire]

May I ask what you are angry with? Is it yourself or other people around you? Or is it a particular event?

Maybe try taking up a sport. Boxing, karate, judo, kick-boxing. Sports like these are great for exess anger.