Complicated relationship...

[Armelit.Dementia]

Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for like 6 months, and I seriously like him, but he keeps lying to me. :/ It's not anything big it's just when he plays video games and I ask him what he's doing sometimes. Anyway's it's long distance and I want to talk to him for at least an hour a day, and yet all he does is play games, even when we haven't talked for days and we finally get the chance to. He acts like he doesn't care, yet he says he does. I don't know what to do I seriously like him, but I just keep getting hurt... I'm also starting to doubt trusting him though he hasn't really done anything except for the small lies, but it's enough to make me worry. My friend's think I need to break up with him, but I like him too much to leave him, any advice? :/

[anonymous53]

I think you need to break up with him, sadly if he can't make time for talking to you it won't work. Long distance is really hard and it requires a lot of work

[Lance Bradley]

Dump his lazy @$$

[Can'tHelpIt]

I think you need to break up with him, sadly if he can't make time for talking to you it won't work. Long distance is really hard and it requires a lot of work

agree 100%

[Teardrop Harmony]

Hunni, long distance relationships are first to crack. They automatically open the door for doubt, and i bet you know this because you have said that you are doubting your trust.
Two people need to have regular communication to make long distance relationships work.

Please do.something, not for me but for you. Ask your self this question: am I happy right now in this situation?
If yes then don't get rid of him
If no or you have doubts then you obviosly don't need him because you are not getting what you need from this. If you have doubts then you are obviously jot happy and happiness is what you neeed

[Rage of the Menace]

I'm in a long-distance relationship, and let me tell you this.

You need to put effort into talking to each other (my girlfriend quit gaming for me) , you need to make sure your girlfriend or boyfriend is loyal, and lastly, make sure she's a person you want to meet eventually and create a functional relationship.

It's very hard, but you can pull through if you're both actually satisfied with each other.

I reckon, you should dump him btw.

[Armelit.Dementia]

Thanks you guys, I did break up with him, and he said he had been leading me on for months and never felt anything... :/

[Desuetude]

Thanks you guys, I did break up with him, and he said he had been leading me on for months and never felt anything... :/

Wow, that's not cool Im glad you're not involved with him anymore, you're worth more than his lying. You'll find someone that treats you how you should be treated so please don't be too upset over him because he isn't worth a tear. He probably said those things to you because he wants himself to believe that he had the upper hand and that he was the one in control. You broke up with him so you know that isn't true, he just wants to try and keep his ego intact. Stupid and selfish really, be happy to get away from it.