giving/recieving?

[billiam183]

i couples times now iv been with this other guy. And we've been foolin around pretty good (hes a few years older than me ;3 years ). And he wanted to take it further..As far as it goes..and im not really into the "receiving"..and i told him that..and hes the same way. But he said maybe we could both do it.

Its not that im uncomfortable with the act..its just that i know i wouldnt enjoy that..but i wud like to do it to him..so should i agree to us both getting a turn.. Seems the most fair. ~i am a virgin by the way.

[Daracon]

If you are both in agreement to both "receiving", then I don't see why not. Maybe you might have to wait awhile before you try anything, don't rush into doing something you might regret later.

[Can'tHelpIt]

I mean yeah you should not be a selfish little kid
But I would love to take it FYI

[billiam183]

If you are both in agreement to both "receiving", then I don't see why not. Maybe you might have to wait awhile before you try anything, don't rush into doing something you might regret later.

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[billiam183]

I mean yeah you should not be a selfish little kid
But I would love to take it FYI

haha..well you say that but do u actually know what it feels like? i can only assume it hurts..haha..but everyone has there preferences

[Short Circuit]

Firstly, don't do it just for the sake of it and don't get bullied into having sex. IF you do give in, make sure you are relaxed, and have tons of lube!!

Secondly, you do not say how old you are, but he is 3 years older, that to me is a big age difference if your like 13 or 14, so be careful.

[thecanjump]

Secondly, you do not say how old you are, but he is 3 years older, that to me is a big age difference if your like 13 or 14, so be careful.

By one of his other posts he said he's 16 and the guy is 19.

[billiam183]

By one of his other posts he said he's 16 and the guy is 19.

^ yup. i know its a nice little gap. its weird cuz fer some reason it doesnt seem to big of a deal to me.. But, if i had a female friend who was dating a 19 year old, i would be a little alarmed.

[thecanjump]

^ yup. i know its a nice little gap. its weird cuz fer some reason it doesnt seem to big of a deal to me.. But, if i had a female friend who was dating a 19 year old, i would be a little alarmed.

I don't see any thing bad about the gap, I'm 17 and like a 14 year old

[Abigballofdust]

It's not too much of a gap. I know of straight couples with a 14-19 gap and that's seen as perfectly normal by people down here.
For the sex question: do what you feel like. If you're together then I think pleasing each other is the main task, therefore you both made a good decision.
Also, since you're a virgin, be very careful not to hurt yourself. I won't advise you any special technique, but I do suggest you should check internet or books to avoid not being able to sit the day after.
Have fun and stay safe.

[jamesscott]

sounds like u need to compromise with it

[TheultimatesmilyXD]

If u do descide to do it use lots of lube it does feel really good