im scared help

[bored789]

im 14 and bi idk if its right ima burn in hell im scared help please

[Kcorb]

what?

You arent burning in hell...

Lets suspend disbelief for a second and say there is a hell, is god not supposed to forgive all sins anyway? like.. was that not the point of jesus dying...?

[TheMatrix]

Religion. A very intricate and confusing factor in deciding your sexuality.
But let's forget religion for a moment. Pretend it doesn't exist. What is your sexuality? Think about it. You say bisexual? Then you are likely a bisexual. Be proud of it!

Alas, religion must be let back in, like the dams breaking to release a flood into a city. Your society may not be accepting of non-straight people. That is unfortunate, however, there are 3 things you can do, mainly if you are religious:

Remain "closeted" for a while.
Until you feel that you can handle the emotional burden of coming out, pretend to be straight. Easier said than done, I know that from experience*.
Come out.
This is by far the most difficult part, and you will probably face lots of questions and discrimination after doing it. But believe me, you will feel better after doing it, give it some time.
Drop your faith or choose a new one.
Personally, I would go with this one. I consider myself to be agnostic, which is easier on me, in my opinion. However, you may have to pretend to still follow your old faith if your family or society would not approve.

Ultimately, the decision is yours, and there may be other things you can do. Just remember: all of us will always be here for you :)

[Abyssal Echo]

Why be scared. we will all die sooner or later.

I am a GAY Christain yes I believe in God, Jesus's death and resurection. I know I am on the wrong side of the fence. but I have to be happy with me so I guess I'll burn in hell. If you are truly that scared give up boys, repent and go str8. only you can decide whats best for you.

[bored789]

its NOT A DECISION if it were that easy I WOULD HAVE TURNED BACK BY NOW TRUST ME!!!

[Can'tHelpIt]

its NOT A DECISION if it were that easy I WOULD HAVE TURNED BACK BY NOW TRUST ME!!!
First, be proud of your sexuality if you hate yourself for it then youll end up with a horrible life
Second, Didn't "Jesus" die for your sins
Third, If people go to hell for a sin then everyone will go to hell because everyone shaves right?

[Kcorb]

First, be proud of your sexuality if you hate yourself for it then youll end up with a horrible life
Second, Didn't "Jesus" die for your sins
Third, If people go to hell for a sin then everyone will go to hell because everyone shaves right?

Exactly this.

if you are worried about going to hell,

Don't worry!!

you will have great company! because everybody else will be there too!

[Mtc 10]

I have weird depictions of God. Certain times I think he is being humorous, others serious/upset about something.. Leviticus 20:13 says "If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads" (NIV). Yes i believe gays willl be sent to hell only for a period of time but until GOd forgives you completely.. Then you will be sent to the kingdom of heaven. I think of it as a short punishment

[Can'tHelpIt]

I have weird depictions of God. Certain times I think he is being humorous, others serious/upset about something.. Leviticus 20:13 says "If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads" (NIV). Yes i believe gays willl be sent to hell only for a period of time but until GOd forgives you completely.. Then you will be sent to the kingdom of heaven. I think of it as a short punishment

that is stupid as crap. If he loves you why would he put you into a horrible torture?
either way its not real

[Mtc 10]

that is stupid as crap. If he loves you why would he put you into a horrible torture?
either way its not real

obviously he believes it. your post was irrevalent..


kid.. dont stress.. its what you believe! screw everyone else. Even me and what I think.! Everyone has differrent depictions of God. Theyre are alot of churches that believe EVERYONE is going to hell regardless

[Can'tHelpIt]

obviously he believes it. your post was irrevalent..


kid.. dont stress.. its what you believe! screw everyone else. Even me and what I think.! Everyone has differrent depictions of God. Theyre are alot of churches that believe EVERYONE is going to hell regardless

The hell that isn't there
ok ok sorry everyone has opinion but gosh wheres the proof? and don't pull that faith crap

[danny7]

r u christian? cuz its an issue if ur christian, but forget religion and be yourself

[Abyssal Echo]

r u christian? cuz its an issue if ur christian, but forget religion and be yourself

I totally agree with Dany.

[bored789]

First, be proud of your sexuality if you hate yourself for it then youll end up with a horrible life
Second, Didn't "Jesus" die for your sins
Third, If people go to hell for a sin then everyone will go to hell because everyone shaves right?

i guess uhhmm,shave?

The hell that isn't there
ok ok sorry everyone has opinion but gosh wheres the proof? and don't pull that faith crap

hey tak easy baby no need for this meaness we should keep it peaceful homeboy jesus

r u christian? cuz its an issue if ur christian, but forget religion and be yourself

naw im catholic

Don't post multiple times in a row. Use the edit button instead ~ ImCoolBeans

[Desuetude]

I have weird depictions of God. Certain times I think he is being humorous, others serious/upset about something.. Leviticus 20:13 says "If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads" (NIV). Yes i believe gays willl be sent to hell only for a period of time but until GOd forgives you completely.. Then you will be sent to the kingdom of heaven. I think of it as a short punishment

That's some shit your thinking there.

Just be yourself, you will not be burning in hell if you come out but if you don't you will.be burning inside. It will hurt to keep it in so maybe try just telling the person you trust the most first and see how that goes. If they take it well then you will have some support in telling everyone else.
Your family should accept you for who you are.

[TeddyBearRock]

God made you who you are, and put you here for a reason. Remember that

[Electra Heart]

Ok, ok, ok. This is my own personal belief so feel free to discard it if it doesn't apply to you. I am a practicing Roman Catholic whom strongly supports LGBT rights. I believe that God created everyone on this Earth with the intention of them remaining equal in each other's eyes. However, years of corruption and greed have seriously eroded our already crippled moral to the point of annihilation. Just try to stay strong and have faith in whatever kind of God, Gods, or even nothing if you choose to believe such. You are you and no one can take that away from you, accept it and live it.

[decaffe]

Yes thanxs :)

[beenthere]

hey your 14, and you'll probabaly feel have strong feelings for a long time, first thing you need to do is accept that, there is nothing your going to do to change that. on the other hand keep an open mind, you don't need to label yourself right now. a lot of guys you age feel a lot like you. I did. accepting what your feeling will instaantly make you feel better. An acoholic is always an acloholic right? is he going to hell? things can change, they did for me. the feelings will aways be there for me, but most of it is in the past now. Hang in there kid, and let go of the guilt. enjoy life, and you can still be a christian. whats the saying? if everyone put there problems on the table, you would probably take your own back.