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Gschmidt247
February 9th, 2012, 10:45 PM
So a couple months ago I told this girl I liked her and she said that she liked me as well. After that we were flirting for a couple days and I asked her if she was okay with me changing my relationship status to in a relationship on facebook. She replied saying that she also liked another person but maybe if her feelings die down for that other person. Then when I got home that night her facebook was in a relationship, but unfortunately it wasn't with me. I got in a huge fight with her and I snapped at her and starting cursing, which I probably shouldn't have done. It was probably the hardest I have ever fell for a girl. After probably a day I was over her and I started talking to this other girl and almost instantly she asked me who I like and said that I liked her which was true and we ended up getting together and then about a day after we got together my the other girl broke up with that kid. I still liked her a lot and I knew she still liked me but I didn't want to end the current relationship because a couple of her friends told me that they had never seen her happier and she told me that "REALLY REALLY likes me" so I kind of just forgot about the other girl. In the end I broke up with the other girl. I kind of just stopped crushing over girls. I am not even sad about either girl but for some reason I kind of like almost every girl I talk to. I know it's kind of sad but true. I still like girls (as in people I want to date, not sexual orientation) but I stopped crushing over girls has this ever happened to you?

Heatbomb21
February 10th, 2012, 05:30 PM
Facebook is a beast that likew to fuck things up for people. Next time, avoid any internet related professions whatsoever.

Can'tHelpIt
February 12th, 2012, 12:58 AM
you think your gay becasue of you bad relationships?

TheMatrix
February 12th, 2012, 03:35 AM
There's two things that don't make sense about that.

You use Facebook as the deciding factor for relationships!?
That has to be the most disastrous idea I've ever heard of. Every single time that I hear my peers have done this, it always ends up with hurt feelings soon after. Never use an online service as the deciding factor in a relationship.
Your relationship success has nothing to do with your sexuality(usually).
If you can't find anyone who is working out for you in your area, then give it a few years. Wait until new people come, then try again.

Breakeven
February 12th, 2012, 06:26 AM
maybe coz ur still hurt from the first girl

Gschmidt247
February 16th, 2012, 03:29 PM
I never said I think I was gay because of past relationships. If I did, I didn't mean too. Hahahahaha