What do i do? Please Help Me!

[DarkEmbrace]

Please help me! Theres this girl at school who I absolutley adore. I have liked quite a few people, but this feels different. Ive loved her since the first time I met her. I was to damn scared to tell her though, and now she going out with someone else!

What do i do? They dont have anything in common, and i dont think he really appreaciates her. They have been going out for almost 3 years. I met this girl 5-6 years ago. I am in a word, Crazy about her and would do anything for her. I truly love her! We have so much in common and she is so sweet!

What do i do! I cant just get over her! Not after that long! Please help me!
This is REALLY important to me...

[Trebor]

Well, let's see:

1: She's with a guy with whom she has nothing in common with.
2: She's with a guy who you don't think "reall appreciates her.
3: You adore her, you're infatuated wiyth her.
4: SHe doesn't know.

Here's my advice, tell her how you feel, if she' smart she'll dumop the guy she's with and see you...

If she rejects you you will have no choice but to get over her.

[DarkEmbrace]

Thankyou, I will try.
Hopefully it will go like you said.
I mean people say that teenagers dont know love. I disagree strongly.
I feel so strongly about her, that i am paranoid for her in a sense. If i ever
hear there has been an accident, or something bad has happened, i will straight away begin to worry, and feel physicaly sick, until i know she is definatly ok.

Edit: And one more question, What exactly do i say? Ive never actualy asked anyone out, or told them face to face how i feel, and i know that
getting a friend to do it, or msn/text is out od the question. How do i tell her? Espeicially when she already has a boyfriend, even if he is an inconsiderate
piece of crap.

[Sapphire]

Maybe try saying how you perceive her current relationship to be. Then tell her how you feel about her and how you would treat her right. If she has any sense then she'll ditch the other guy for you.
Good luck

[Trebor]

Thankyou, I will try.
Hopefully it will go like you said.
I mean people say that teenagers dont know love. I disagree strongly.
I feel so strongly about her, that i am paranoid for her in a sense. If i ever
hear there has been an accident, or something bad has happened, i will straight away begin to worry, and feel physicaly sick, until i know she is definatly ok.

Edit: And one more question, What exactly do i say? Ive never actualy asked anyone out, or told them face to face how i feel, and i know that
getting a friend to do it, or msn/text is out od the question. How do i tell her? Espeicially when she already has a boyfriend, even if he is an inconsiderate
piece of crap.


Meet her on her own. And just tell her. Don't tell her you love her though. SHe may become uneasy

[Gumleaf]

i don't think its your place to try and break them up despite how you feel. if they have been together for 3 years, then they must really like eachother.

[DarkEmbrace]

Well ive told her, and shes ok with it, which im very suprised about.
Only trouble is i cant ever think of anything to say to her. My mind just goes blank! This is so annoying! Just imagine what a conversation killer that must be!

[football]

well...they must have a good relationship if theyve been going out for 3 years..thats a very long time for a relationship so something must be going right. I thoughtt that was interesting when i read that. but anyway i think the only thing you can do IS tell her. and you have to see the feedback so i wish you very goooooooooood luck because this has happened 2 me and ive been 2 afraid to tell her. GO GET HER DUDE!

[Chatman]

its the exactly the same with me, i need help on that one to. Does she look like everything you want in a girl? That's what the girl i love is like, i nearly died when i first saw her. I'm too scared to tell her though.

[DarkEmbrace]

Well I told her exactly how I feel last night. Its kind of a long story, but i got talking to her, and I said again how I feel. Then she asked me why, because she was feeling really self concious at the time, and for some reason under the impression that noone likes her. I told her how I love her personality, her looks, everything about her really!
After that she seemed a lot happyer, and since then has been a lot warmer towards me.

[deadpaw]

Well thats definatly a good sign! :D Hopefully you'll get her, if the guys shes dating really is a "Piece of Crap"

[marine_sniperman35]

If you two are meant to be together then you will eventually get her. Just remember...you have to give love its good time...even though it gets on your nerves (does that to me to) you have to give it time.

And if you would do anything for her and you truly love her...you'll do what makes her happy even if that means being with another guy no matter how much it hurts you. It's not easy...but trust me I'd rather see the girl I'm in love with happy with some other guy than not as happy with me.