online love!

[Breakeven]

Long Distance love? is it real feeling or what? do u believe in it?

[sallyjames]

i do believe in it

[Clawhammer]

You can't keep a relationship right from the start online, that is, not if you want it to last very long. Long distance relationships can work for a while, but at some point you need to actually be together.

[ClaireMarie]

I believe in it.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

Not puberty.

Puberty101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Fiction]

Love is definately possible long distance and online. Lol anyone who says it's not has no fucking idea :) Online love can be strong enough to kill people. In alot of ways it's much strong than real life love. It's whole base is rested on emotions, and talking, and getting to know each other. Not physical contact and sex. It makes for love deeper than anything else i've ever felt. However, it makes for the most pain i've ever felt too.

But in short, anyone who says it's not true has never experienced it, obviously, and can't really make any judgement what so ever.

[ImCoolBeans]

Love is definately possible long distance and online. Lol anyone who says it's not has no fucking idea :) Online love can be strong enough to kill people. In alot of ways it's much strong than real life love. It's whole base is rested on emotions, and talking, and getting to know each other. Not physical contact and sex. It makes for love deeper than anything else i've ever felt. However, it makes for the most pain i've ever felt too.

But in short, anyone who says it's not true has never experienced it, obviously, and can't really make any judgement what so ever.

I agree and, it's certainly something you have to experience to fully understand. But it definitely is real.

[christianteen]

Long distance is possible but you have to meet at some point. Part of having a relationship is having physical contact and without that it just becomes boring.

[Ender]

Definitely real. Take's a lot of time & effort, but it can work :D

[DanielleD]

I don't think it can work

[prob1996]

I totally believe in it! I met my bf on online and have been together for 5 months. It does take alot of work but can be done.

[audiophile5]

You can't keep a relationship right from the start online, that is, not if you want it to last very long. Long distance relationships can work for a while, but at some point you need to actually be together.

Totally agree^^

[Love.Hate]

Love is definately possible long distance and online. Lol anyone who says it's not has no fucking idea :) Online love can be strong enough to kill people. In alot of ways it's much strong than real life love. It's whole base is rested on emotions, and talking, and getting to know each other. Not physical contact and sex. It makes for love deeper than anything else i've ever felt. However, it makes for the most pain i've ever felt too.

But in short, anyone who says it's not true has never experienced it, obviously, and can't really make any judgement what so ever.

Amen to this, couldn't agree more.

You can fall in love online for sure, it is a deeper sort of love than you may experience in real life, with so much less pressure to be someone your not.. Its love based on you loving who they are as a person, not money, looks or how good they may be in bed. It exists, anyone that doesnt believe in it hasnt felt it, i used to be really cynical and say that i didnt think you could even become friends with people online let alone fall in love.. i was soon proven to be incredibly wrong :P

It can work, but its hard and takes a lot of effort from both sides

[Kaius]

Love is definately possible long distance and online. Lol anyone who says it's not has no fucking idea :) Online love can be strong enough to kill people. In alot of ways it's much strong than real life love. It's whole base is rested on emotions, and talking, and getting to know each other. Not physical contact and sex. It makes for love deeper than anything else i've ever felt. However, it makes for the most pain i've ever felt too.

But in short, anyone who says it's not true has never experienced it, obviously, and can't really make any judgement what so ever.

Amen to this, couldn't agree more.

You can fall in love online for sure, it is a deeper sort of love than you may experience in real life, with so much less pressure to be someone your not.. Its love based on you loving who they are as a person, not money, looks or how good they may be in bed. It exists, anyone that doesnt believe in it hasnt felt it, i used to be really cynical and say that i didnt think you could even become friends with people online let alone fall in love.. i was soon proven to be incredibly wrong :P

It can work, but its hard and takes a lot of effort from both sides

Pretty much agreed with these two, they've said what i feel word for word.

[Jesse17]

It depends.
but as for me, i dont really believe in it, coz we can't even touched, kissed, hugged or something.

[FullyAlive]

I do believe its real and just as valid as any other form of love. But I don't think its necessarily deeper than in real life, and you need to actually meet in some other capacity because I don't believe online will work long term..

[anonymous53]

It is possible, but it takes a lot of work, trust and communication. Sadly most of the time it ends in heartbreak

[Teardrop Harmony]

I don'tsee it as reap love myself hecause so many times I've seen lies and deceit become the foundation of a relationship. I know you can have deep friendships that can be mistaken for llove but to make it work you need to be able to ignore the juggling feeling of are they who i have fallen for

[Eclipsical]

It can work..just not very easily and actually takes MORE work than a normal relationship.

[Rage of the Menace]

Love is definately possible long distance and online. Lol anyone who says it's not has no fucking idea :) Online love can be strong enough to kill people. In alot of ways it's much strong than real life love. It's whole base is rested on emotions, and talking, and getting to know each other. Not physical contact and sex. It makes for love deeper than anything else i've ever felt. However, it makes for the most pain i've ever felt too.

But in short, anyone who says it's not true has never experienced it, obviously, and can't really make any judgement what so ever.

Amen to that

Effort and time. I love my girlfriend more than anything, and guess what, she's in missouri and i'm in sydney. It's working for a few reasons.

We're so alike, it's uncanny.
She's very assuring and extremely dedicated.
TRUST <----- Big thing.
Loyalty is very important.
Last and not least, we love each other :)

[andy3310]

agree^^^

[Truth]

I know first hand, online relationships do not work.

[Skeptical Bear]

I know first hand, online relationships do not work.

I'd have to disagree on that. From my experience, it does work and it hurts a lot. I don't think it's impossible as you're implying but it surely won't happen to everyone, all the time.

[Truth]

I'd have to disagree on that. From my experience, it does work and it hurts a lot. I don't think it's impossible as you're implying but it surely won't happen to everyone, all the time. I mean that there is no successful online relationships. Either you meet them in real life at some point, or it ends. They will likely end up cheating on you from my experience.

[Phazit]

I have a friend who had 3 overseas online relationships with some American girls. At first, it was great, chatting and "webcamming" every day. He was even arranging for the both of us to go and visit the first one. But, in the end, it grew strenuous, and he could not cope. What makes it worse is that at least 2 are dead from suicide :( (and I am sure it was not him who caused it to happen). He only told me this recently. Bottom line: They require so much will power and commitment in order for them to work. Teenage guys especially find it hard to do because it is so much easier to find a local girl.

[KarkatLuv]

My Uncle and Aunty found each other online, and they have been happily married for idk how many years, so yes, I do believe

[Aves]

Yes, it is real. No doubt about it. It truly has the potential to be the most mature form of love. There is less of a dependence on sex and a high dependence on communication and trust. However, remember it is the internet. People make up who they are, sometimes completely changing everything about themselves.

Always be careful, but know that it's not all just a hoax.

[Akasuki]

If you can fall in love anywhere in the world, why couldn't you fall in love on the internet?

I met my girlfriend online, we lived an entire country away from each other, and I'm living with her now. We've been together for a year and a half. Our love is very real.

Just because your online relationship didn't work out doesn't mean it doesn't work out for others.

My mom met a guy that lived in Holland by playing an online game and they lasted 3 years before meeting in person.

[gayprideguy12]

i do belive in it but there are times when it can be dangerous when you dont know who it is

[Pipo]

Love is definately possible long distance and online. Lol anyone who says it's not has no fucking idea :) Online love can be strong enough to kill people. In alot of ways it's much strong than real life love. It's whole base is rested on emotions, and talking, and getting to know each other. Not physical contact and sex. It makes for love deeper than anything else i've ever felt. However, it makes for the most pain i've ever felt too.

But in short, anyone who says it's not true has never experienced it, obviously, and can't really make any judgement what so ever.

I agree and, it's certainly something you have to experience to fully understand. But it definitely is real.


I've been in two online relationships and both of them were out of my country where I live, in English which is not my first language. Yes I was in love but it's too much of waiting and spending time in net...I want a relationship where I can go and visit my boyfriend, girlfriend whatever when I wish. Not when we say okay next summer for one week then we wait another year to meet each other I mean who pays 700$ bucks to see his love?

many of my friends can see their loves for free I couldn't what's up with that..seriously I'm not going to start online relationship again it's all about waiting and spending money on travel for a week. I was in love but before we could go together and be with each other longer than week or month it would have taken years.

I do not recommended anyone online relationship no matter how lonely you feel you better find someone near your house than outside your country trust me on this.

[Coolboi]

o it's real as can be I have met some realy cool people online one a chat a lot for over a year an I could not or have never talked with anyone about what we talk about . an yes we luv each other but not like kissing an hugging. i guess you have to experience it for your self to be a believer . try it you will like it ! sweet luv to An my cyber friends .hope to meet you all someday you never no??

[kimsmarken]

I believe it. Love is so precious one and there are no words in our world to express the love, just we feel it only. Trust will play a vital role at online love or relationship.

[RedViper]

Well I have a very good friend in Norway and we do love each other, the only thing is, neither of us want to start a relationship being so far away. But yes, it's possible. I guess you could say we have a long distance open relationship anyway, like, we love each other, but we don't care if the other person has sex with other people

[CassnovA]

it doesnt work if you dont meet eventually. u cant love with no physical interaction whatsoever.

[Emerald Dream]

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