I cheated again.

[ackmedsgirl666]

So I cheated on my boyfriend again with my ex last night and its gotten ti the point that I feel so guilty that I won't even let my boyfriend touch me because of what me and my ex dis. We screwed around and he got down my pants but he tried to pressure me for sex but I said no cuz I already felt guilty enough. What should I do? Basically I still have feelings for my ex butif I go back to him ill hurt my boyfriend and I'll lose all my friends
I'm so confused. My bf knows I cheated before and he said it was OK but he said he would giveme one more strike. Well I blew that and if he finds out I'm done for.
What should I do?

[Mortal Coil]

I can understand what it's like to have feelings for more than one boy at the same time. If your feelings for your ex are strong enough for you to do that, though, you may want to consider going back to him and making him your boyfriend.
I'm sorry about the guilt you're stuck with. It can eat you alive if you're not careful, but it also shows that you're a good person.
Be with who you love. If you would rather be with your ex, go to him. Nothing in this life is permanent. Not your friends, not your boyfriends, and nothing else either, so do what makes you happy in the short run.

[Golden Terror]

do the right thing and don't cheat in the first place!!!!

[Breakeven]

if u really loved ur bf u wouldnt cheat on him , i think ur still sort of in love with ur ex that why u cheated on ur bf with him anyway if u dont tell him he will find out and if he loves u he will give u a chance but u need to know if u are really in love with ur bf....

[ackmedsgirl666]

I love my boyfriend but I still feel care about my ex.

[Clawhammer]

Question, if you really loved him, would you do this to him? Sooner or later you're just going to have to keep a stiff upper lip and say no when it seems impossible. Trust me, it can be done, I've done it and I'm the far better off for it today. Face the fact that you cheated on him, and if he found out, he'd leave you. Honestly, that's only right. You didn't have to, it was avoidable, and you screwed up. That doesn't sentence you to a life of continually doing the same thing over and over unless you let it.
To sum it all up, don't tell him, he doesn't need to feel that pain. It's your burden to bear, so don't even go near your ex again and do things right in the next go 'round. If you can't do that for yourself, do that for him. If he's forgiven you for cheating on him once, he obviously really cares about you. Do right by him, and never forget that. Just remember, you CAN decide not to do things, as hard as it seems. You stopped them before they went further, congratulations for that, but you really could've done that in the first place if you did later.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

Honestly, I don't think you're ready for a relationship at all. You like two guys, which isn't going to help you at all, in fact, it'll just harm things in the end. Honestly, I say forget them both. Be single for a little, until your mind is in the right place.

Also, tell your boyfriend. You telling him is WAY better than him finding out from someone else. Trust me on that one. That wouldn't be good if he found out from someone else.

[anonymous53]

Sadly, you're going to have to tell your boyfriend. It'll hurt a lot less coming from you than from someone else. I would also say just take some time away from relationships. Clear your head a little :)