A Girl I Know

[Auzzie 94]

Okay, I have this kinda friend I recently met and she has endured alot, no one deserves to go through was she went through... she's been raped (recently) and she's recently told me she has a new plan to take her own life with some kind of "poison"... what advice can I give her.. it makes me upset because she's beautiful and she's so kind and is really nice to talk to and I just don't want her to even attempt to take her life.. she always says she is a waste of my time and that she just brings pain to everyone's lives but to mine she brought happiness and every time I talk to her, I feel like smiling.. but then when we talk sometimes she talks about killing herself and it brings tears to my eyes knowing that someone as beautiful as her is in such a messed up position :\ I have no idea what advice to give her or what to say to her... :(

[Borxar]

Aww dude, let her know how valuable she is as a person and also to yourself. Even though she has endured hardship, let her know that the rape doesnt have to define her and what she thinks about herself. Her value doesnt change from being raped. I hope things go well man :(

[Desuetude]

Hey im sorry she had to go through that. Tell her. Tell her how beautiful she is and how she makes you feel. Tell her how upset you and everyone else would be if she did leave.
Maybe, if she wants it, try and find her some help. Someone that could help her try and get over what's happened and slowly she might start to be able to move on. Just stay with her through everything.
Just make her know that people care and love her, that she isn't alone in this and has some support.