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Short Circuit
February 8th, 2012, 06:30 AM
My Grandmother (dads mum) died Monday morning, my dad was at her bedside when she finally stopped breathing. I cant eat, sleep, or anything, but I cry allot.

Smeagol
February 8th, 2012, 07:54 AM
My grandma died recently too. Remember the happy memories, and even though it is good to grieve for her, remember that she wouldn't want you to be miserable :) We are all here for you too. Stay strong in her memory.

Rayquaza
February 8th, 2012, 08:04 AM
My grandfather died yesterday. I am sorry for your loss.

Borxar
February 8th, 2012, 09:02 AM
I am so sorry for your loss man. It is hard to lose someone you love. Dont be ashamed of your grieving, because people grieve in different ways and it is good to express it rather then hide it. It is not harmful, unless it goes on for a prolonged period. But remember your grandmother for who she was and release it and I hope you feel better soon!

Jupiter
February 8th, 2012, 09:08 AM
Kyle,

I am so sorry that you lost your grandma! The last major (human) death that got to me was my Grandpa Rudd. He had prostate cancer. He also died in his sleep. He was a great man, and it hit the family hard. Not only that, but he worked until the day he died, gosh darn it. We had to finish his business and everything. He was a veterinarian. Not just any normal one, either. He was a vet that was traveling, for larger animals, ya know?

Anyway, it really does suck having a family member die. She went to most peaceful way, which we should rejoice. The way I look at it, is that a funeral is not a time for wishing that person was there, because they can’t come back. Instead, we should celebrate the life. Think about the great things your grandma did. There is a time to cry, a time to rejoice. You know where I am if you need to talk.

Stay strong, man.
~Eric/Bogumil

ImCoolBeans
February 8th, 2012, 12:19 PM
I'm really sorry for your loss. Both of my paternal grandparents are dead, and my mothers mom is as well. I hope everything goes okay - if you're feeling down or just want to talk to someone don't hesitate to shoot me a VM or PM. Again, I'm really sorry to hear.

Short Circuit
February 8th, 2012, 02:21 PM
Thanks guys and girls, but atm I just cannot cope with anything, I know my grandma would not want me to be like this, but I just cant help it.

Stronger
February 8th, 2012, 05:03 PM
I am so sorry to hear that, my grandma has been pretty ill, so I feel, the end is coming for her. As long as she went peaceful and wasn't in pain, then that should make you feel somewhat good, but loosing family is hard, I haven't lose anyone close to me yet, but I fear my grandma wont last too long, shes not in pain which makes me happy, but she has cancer again and I just hope she doesn't die in pain. Feel free to PM me, if you wanna talk :)