beauty8
February 8th, 2012, 03:45 AM
Hi.
Before I start to tell my story, just want to mention that Ive already had serious boyfriends in the past and that I am quite experienced (I'm 19 years old). However, recently Ive dated some bad guys and they broke my heart and I lost confidence in guys and a bit in myself.
So I Met a guy on the internet 1 month ago. Unfortunately, I wasnt looking for anything serious back then so I posted in the section looking for: "no commitment". He replied to my add and said that its the first time he is doing this. He seemed funny so I answered back. We exchanged some letters and we decided to meet one week later. I proposed him to meet at an outdoor festival.
So everything worked out well as planned. We met there and he was with his bestfriend so it was cool. We were dancing all night but no physical contact. He was checking me out and I was a bit intimidated because he is a very good looking guy. The party ended around 1am and he invited me to a house party after. First, I was hesitant but then I decided to go because I felt like there was a great chemistry between us. So the 3 of us went to the house party and it was quite fun. Then his friend left so we decided to leave. I told him that I was hungry so he proposed me to go eat somewhere. It was about 3am. We went to a resto that was a bit expensive. I ordered and I was about to pay and he said that its him who will pay for my order. I was really impressed. So we ate and talk, and it was fun. He asked me how come a nice girl like me posted in the "no strings attached" section. I just changed the subject quickly because I was embarrassed. Then he drove me to my car (I was parked couple of blocs away). It was very cold outside so he told me that I could wait in his car while my car would get warmer. That was another nice move from him. After waiting like 10minute sin his car, I told him that my car was probably good to go now so we just hugged eachother. He said that he would like to see me again. Half an hour later, he texted me to check if I got home safe and he added that he really enjoyed his night wth me and that he found me attractive.
The next day, we added eachother on FB and we chated a bit. 2 days after meeeting him in person, he texted me that he has to go near my school to renew his passport and I suggested that we could go for a coffee. However, I was a bit busy so I told him that he would have to wait about half an hour after me and he said its not a problem. So we met at a coffee and it was quite fun. We talked for about 2 hours. However, I couldnt really lok into his eyes because this guy has such a strong sex appeal, it,s incredible. Im really nervous around him and look shy. On our way out, I kissed him lol I think I really got him by surprise because he didnt open his mouth So I thought that he didnt want to kiss me so I pulled back. Then he said "No, come back!". That was quite funny!
So I asked him if he still wanted to see me and he said yes. Then he told me to drive carefully.
So we kept chatting and texting for a couple of days. I need to mention that it was him who was initiating our conversations online. Me I tried to act independent. He said that he checked out my horoscope and that he read some interesting thins. Also, one night when I texted him, he said that its funny because he was thinking about me the moment I texted him.
However, we planned to see eachother on the weekend. I told him that i was going to a bar near his place and that we could maybe meet up after. I think I didnt express myself well because he said "if you want, you can come over after...but I dont promess anything". As if he taught I wanted sex? hmmm...anyways! Once I was at the bar, I texted him around 10pm to see what he was doing and he said that he was tired and sick and that he was going to bed. I was a bit pissed because we were kinda supposed to see eachother. So I suggested him to see eachother the following day, but he never replied...So the next day, he texts me and says that he was sorry that we couldnt see eachother, but he had to do something important. And he said that he was feeling great...Then I felt like he was lying because first he said that he was going to bed, and 2 days later he appologizes for going out. I felt like it was the end of it.
However, I decided to give it a last try. On monday I had to go near his work and I told him I could stop by to just say a lil hi. He suggested that we could go out for lunch during his break. He told me that he would text me later on to check his schedule. So when I woke up, I checked my phone and he said that he had an eye infection and that he wasnt sure if we could go out for lunch because he was waiting after a doctor. He told me to call him when Id be done with my appointment and we would see. So it's what I did. I called him and he said that he was with his buddy and that he needed to drop him off somewhere. I got so pissed. I obvioulsy acted cool and just said "alright, Im gonna go home then". Then surprisingly, he said that he would like to see me and that If i wanted, he could pick me up and like that we could drop off his friend together. That was hilarious! :lol: So they picked me up and when I saw him, I agve him a lil kiss on his cheek. Then he said that he was really sorry, that he feels bad because he has an eye infection and doesnt want me to be infected. Anyways, so then we dropped of his friend somewhere. Then we stopped to eat a pizza. Once again, I was a bit shy and all because like I said it before, I kinda realised that this guy has some potential and that he was promiscuous. When I was about to get in my car, he asked me when he could see me again and I told hi to text me whenever.
So he texted me 2 days later "heys whats up? I tried to call u but ur phone was off." So I called him back and he asked me if i wanted to go clubbing with him and his bestfriend. I accepted. So ya, I met up with them in the club but I just wasnt feeling it. The club was 3/4 empty and only him and his buddy were like tipsy/drunkish. They bought me some drinks but I still wasnt feeling the vibe. I was kinda tired so at some point i just grabbed him and was kinda dancing slowly on his shoulders. He hugged me and we danced like that for about 5 minutes and then he said thats its funny how I am leading him. SO I thought that he meant that he wanted me to step back so its what I did. Then he said "No no its not what I meant" and pulled me back. We continued dancing like that for another minute or so and then he said that he wants to dance (because we werent really dancing, just holding eachother). Unfortunately, I had to leave because I had to go to another club. I invited them but they declined. When I was about to leave, they said that they changed their mind and that they were coming with me. I was really happy about it.
So when we got to the other club, it was still empty. His friend didnt seem to care but "my dude" was really annoying. He kept complaining that it was way too empty and blablabla. SO while we were waiting for the club to get packed, we were sitting and we were kinda getting closer to eachother (ex: Ive put my head on his shoulders, then he did the same thing). Once it got packed, it was better. He stopped complaining and we started dancing next to eachother. At one point, he got so drunk that he kissed me intensely a couple of times. I enjoyed it. Sometimes, he got really tired so he just sat down and me I continued dancing. Everytime he left, he texted me to tell me where I could find him. Then we left and we decided to pass out at his bestfriend's place. So me and him we were sleeping next to eachother in the guest room and his buddy was sleeping in his own room. I need to mention that he was still very drunk. So we cuddled a bit, I slept on his shoulders for about half an hour. He played a bit in my hair. We kissed a bit. It was fun. However, I didnt want to get too sexual because I just dont want him to think that Im still looking for no strings attached. But then,he started talking to me about personnal things. First, he said that he wants me to stop acting akward because he is a cool guy. I told him that he was just making me nervous. Then he asked me if I was a virgin. I told him the truth and said that no I wasnt, that he was just making me nervous because he is a nice guy. Then we tried to sleep. He had his eyes closed and he said something very strange. I quote: "Dont get me wrong. Id do you now but I dont have protection." I honestly didnt replied anything to that because first of all, he was still very drunk and secondly, he was half asleep. But then I started to worry. I actually remembered that I met this guy online in the "no strings attached section"...I started to wonder if he was nice with me just to get sex.... However, when I was leaving, he asked me once again when he could see me and I told him to just text me whenever.
So the next day I saw him on the chat, so I said hi but he said that he had to leave. Then the following day, I told him that I had to go near his work for an appointment. Then he said that unfortunately he is going to be busy all week. Why would he ask me when he could see me if he is going to be busy all week?!
Im not sure what to think anymore. At first, he seemed so interested. And now Im scared that he might not wanna see me again because I act akward around him (Im shy). And Im also scared that he was just looking for sex and he kinda realised that I was looking for more so he is backing up. Do you think he likes me but he is just busy this week?
If you are over 15 years old, could you please help me out here? What do you think about all this? Thank you
Thanks for reading my story until the end!
Before I start to tell my story, just want to mention that Ive already had serious boyfriends in the past and that I am quite experienced (I'm 19 years old). However, recently Ive dated some bad guys and they broke my heart and I lost confidence in guys and a bit in myself.
So I Met a guy on the internet 1 month ago. Unfortunately, I wasnt looking for anything serious back then so I posted in the section looking for: "no commitment". He replied to my add and said that its the first time he is doing this. He seemed funny so I answered back. We exchanged some letters and we decided to meet one week later. I proposed him to meet at an outdoor festival.
So everything worked out well as planned. We met there and he was with his bestfriend so it was cool. We were dancing all night but no physical contact. He was checking me out and I was a bit intimidated because he is a very good looking guy. The party ended around 1am and he invited me to a house party after. First, I was hesitant but then I decided to go because I felt like there was a great chemistry between us. So the 3 of us went to the house party and it was quite fun. Then his friend left so we decided to leave. I told him that I was hungry so he proposed me to go eat somewhere. It was about 3am. We went to a resto that was a bit expensive. I ordered and I was about to pay and he said that its him who will pay for my order. I was really impressed. So we ate and talk, and it was fun. He asked me how come a nice girl like me posted in the "no strings attached" section. I just changed the subject quickly because I was embarrassed. Then he drove me to my car (I was parked couple of blocs away). It was very cold outside so he told me that I could wait in his car while my car would get warmer. That was another nice move from him. After waiting like 10minute sin his car, I told him that my car was probably good to go now so we just hugged eachother. He said that he would like to see me again. Half an hour later, he texted me to check if I got home safe and he added that he really enjoyed his night wth me and that he found me attractive.
The next day, we added eachother on FB and we chated a bit. 2 days after meeeting him in person, he texted me that he has to go near my school to renew his passport and I suggested that we could go for a coffee. However, I was a bit busy so I told him that he would have to wait about half an hour after me and he said its not a problem. So we met at a coffee and it was quite fun. We talked for about 2 hours. However, I couldnt really lok into his eyes because this guy has such a strong sex appeal, it,s incredible. Im really nervous around him and look shy. On our way out, I kissed him lol I think I really got him by surprise because he didnt open his mouth So I thought that he didnt want to kiss me so I pulled back. Then he said "No, come back!". That was quite funny!
So I asked him if he still wanted to see me and he said yes. Then he told me to drive carefully.
So we kept chatting and texting for a couple of days. I need to mention that it was him who was initiating our conversations online. Me I tried to act independent. He said that he checked out my horoscope and that he read some interesting thins. Also, one night when I texted him, he said that its funny because he was thinking about me the moment I texted him.
However, we planned to see eachother on the weekend. I told him that i was going to a bar near his place and that we could maybe meet up after. I think I didnt express myself well because he said "if you want, you can come over after...but I dont promess anything". As if he taught I wanted sex? hmmm...anyways! Once I was at the bar, I texted him around 10pm to see what he was doing and he said that he was tired and sick and that he was going to bed. I was a bit pissed because we were kinda supposed to see eachother. So I suggested him to see eachother the following day, but he never replied...So the next day, he texts me and says that he was sorry that we couldnt see eachother, but he had to do something important. And he said that he was feeling great...Then I felt like he was lying because first he said that he was going to bed, and 2 days later he appologizes for going out. I felt like it was the end of it.
However, I decided to give it a last try. On monday I had to go near his work and I told him I could stop by to just say a lil hi. He suggested that we could go out for lunch during his break. He told me that he would text me later on to check his schedule. So when I woke up, I checked my phone and he said that he had an eye infection and that he wasnt sure if we could go out for lunch because he was waiting after a doctor. He told me to call him when Id be done with my appointment and we would see. So it's what I did. I called him and he said that he was with his buddy and that he needed to drop him off somewhere. I got so pissed. I obvioulsy acted cool and just said "alright, Im gonna go home then". Then surprisingly, he said that he would like to see me and that If i wanted, he could pick me up and like that we could drop off his friend together. That was hilarious! :lol: So they picked me up and when I saw him, I agve him a lil kiss on his cheek. Then he said that he was really sorry, that he feels bad because he has an eye infection and doesnt want me to be infected. Anyways, so then we dropped of his friend somewhere. Then we stopped to eat a pizza. Once again, I was a bit shy and all because like I said it before, I kinda realised that this guy has some potential and that he was promiscuous. When I was about to get in my car, he asked me when he could see me again and I told hi to text me whenever.
So he texted me 2 days later "heys whats up? I tried to call u but ur phone was off." So I called him back and he asked me if i wanted to go clubbing with him and his bestfriend. I accepted. So ya, I met up with them in the club but I just wasnt feeling it. The club was 3/4 empty and only him and his buddy were like tipsy/drunkish. They bought me some drinks but I still wasnt feeling the vibe. I was kinda tired so at some point i just grabbed him and was kinda dancing slowly on his shoulders. He hugged me and we danced like that for about 5 minutes and then he said thats its funny how I am leading him. SO I thought that he meant that he wanted me to step back so its what I did. Then he said "No no its not what I meant" and pulled me back. We continued dancing like that for another minute or so and then he said that he wants to dance (because we werent really dancing, just holding eachother). Unfortunately, I had to leave because I had to go to another club. I invited them but they declined. When I was about to leave, they said that they changed their mind and that they were coming with me. I was really happy about it.
So when we got to the other club, it was still empty. His friend didnt seem to care but "my dude" was really annoying. He kept complaining that it was way too empty and blablabla. SO while we were waiting for the club to get packed, we were sitting and we were kinda getting closer to eachother (ex: Ive put my head on his shoulders, then he did the same thing). Once it got packed, it was better. He stopped complaining and we started dancing next to eachother. At one point, he got so drunk that he kissed me intensely a couple of times. I enjoyed it. Sometimes, he got really tired so he just sat down and me I continued dancing. Everytime he left, he texted me to tell me where I could find him. Then we left and we decided to pass out at his bestfriend's place. So me and him we were sleeping next to eachother in the guest room and his buddy was sleeping in his own room. I need to mention that he was still very drunk. So we cuddled a bit, I slept on his shoulders for about half an hour. He played a bit in my hair. We kissed a bit. It was fun. However, I didnt want to get too sexual because I just dont want him to think that Im still looking for no strings attached. But then,he started talking to me about personnal things. First, he said that he wants me to stop acting akward because he is a cool guy. I told him that he was just making me nervous. Then he asked me if I was a virgin. I told him the truth and said that no I wasnt, that he was just making me nervous because he is a nice guy. Then we tried to sleep. He had his eyes closed and he said something very strange. I quote: "Dont get me wrong. Id do you now but I dont have protection." I honestly didnt replied anything to that because first of all, he was still very drunk and secondly, he was half asleep. But then I started to worry. I actually remembered that I met this guy online in the "no strings attached section"...I started to wonder if he was nice with me just to get sex.... However, when I was leaving, he asked me once again when he could see me and I told him to just text me whenever.
So the next day I saw him on the chat, so I said hi but he said that he had to leave. Then the following day, I told him that I had to go near his work for an appointment. Then he said that unfortunately he is going to be busy all week. Why would he ask me when he could see me if he is going to be busy all week?!
Im not sure what to think anymore. At first, he seemed so interested. And now Im scared that he might not wanna see me again because I act akward around him (Im shy). And Im also scared that he was just looking for sex and he kinda realised that I was looking for more so he is backing up. Do you think he likes me but he is just busy this week?
If you are over 15 years old, could you please help me out here? What do you think about all this? Thank you
Thanks for reading my story until the end!