met online.

[billiam183]

so i met this kid on the internet, who is bout 3 years older than me. we live close and met once. Ya dig? he wanted to meet again. os it wrong since the age difference and the fact i met him online? i enjoy talking to him and hes hot. so..?

[wattado]

whats both your ages? and if you met him before then i dont see it as bad unless one is an adult and the other isnt and i suggest having a parent with you if you two are ever together just for some extra safety even tho it is isnt safe to meet people you met online nothing anyone can say can stop you but it best to know to be safe.

[prob1996]

I don't think it's wrong at all. Just somethings you have keep aware of that's all. the age difference is tricky depending on wht ages you are. My bf and I are 3 yrs apart and for him it's a little more serious so we have to be careful. I also met him online. There is alot of stuff you have to be careful about. Even though you guys have met already still be cautious until you really get to know each other better.

Good luck with everything! Hope it works. Just be smart about it ;)

[billiam183]

whats both your ages? and if you met him before then i dont see it as bad unless one is an adult and the other isnt and i suggest having a parent with you if you two are ever together just for some extra safety even tho it is isnt safe to meet people you met online nothing anyone can say can stop you but it best to know to be safe.

well see..the first day we met..we had somewhat of a "physical relation"..and i really dont want my parents around, as they dont know about my sexuality. Ages are 16 and 19

[Abyssal Echo]

that could pose a lot of legal issues. unless you take the 2 yrs to get to know each other better then when you turn 18 you can have all the fun with him you want.

[ImCoolBeans]

If you choose to do so, I ask that you please be smart and careful. There are a lot of crazies out there, man.

[billiam183]

If you choose to do so, I ask that you please be smart and careful. There are a lot of crazies out there, man.

for sure. He seems cool..but im a pretty cautious person. The fact that im talking to someone i met online is really weird fer me, and may suggest otherwise..but i am.

[danny7]

ur 16, hes 19. its illegal! hes over 18, meaning he is an adult, and you are still a minor..

Stupid govenrment, huh? a 16 and 17 yr old couple can date, but once one turns 18 and the other 17, they can't date anymore cuz he/she is an "adult".. the government is soo confused.

[billiam183]

ur 16, hes 19. its illegal! hes over 18, meaning he is an adult, and you are still a minor..

Stupid govenrment, huh? a 16 and 17 yr old couple can date, but once one turns 18 and the other 17, they can't date anymore cuz he/she is an "adult".. the government is soo confused.

they can "date"..they just cant have a sexual relationship..or am i wrong? anyways. he IS kinda old fer me. i understand that..but 3 years isnt a whole lot of a big difference

[wattado]

they can "date"..they just cant have a sexual relationship..or am i wrong? anyways. he IS kinda old fer me. i understand that..but 3 years isnt a whole lot of a big difference

you cant have sexual relationship without consent. not sure if the law changed or not but thats what i last remember it being.

[billiam183]

you cant have sexual relationship without consent. not sure if the law changed or not but thats what i last remember it being.

There is a legal age of consent, which varies by state.

[Breakeven]

age is just a number!

[SlightlySane]

The legal age of consent in a majority of the USA is 16 plus 3 years. If this is the case sexual relations are perfectly legal. However, I don't think that having physical relationships like this so soon is a good idea. Especially when your parents don't know about it.

Most parents get a sense when their children begin sneaking around, I certainly wouldn't want to risk that. Just as well, you met this guy online and you're getting physical with him after meeting the first time? There are an unlimited number of reasons as to why that is so very dangerous. Plus, if you end up wanting a relationship it's not likely someone like this wants anything more than sexual pleasure.

Don't worry about the legality of the issue, worry about your personal safety. Please have respect for your mind, soul, and body; as well as your parents and their boundaries.

[Electra Heart]

Woah dude, I know it may seem like fun and games now but that can go south real quick on the internet. Millions of people aren't who they say they are. I'm not telling you what to do or what not to do, just take caution alright, bud? Oh, and don't go alone!

[Caver]

If your confident, bring a few of your friends too!

[billiam183]

The legal age of consent in a majority of the USA is 16 plus 3 years. If this is the case sexual relations are perfectly legal. However, I don't think that having physical relationships like this so soon is a good idea. Especially when your parents don't know about it.

Most parents get a sense when their children begin sneaking around, I certainly wouldn't want to risk that. Just as well, you met this guy online and you're getting physical with him after meeting the first time? There are an unlimited number of reasons as to why that is so very dangerous. Plus, if you end up wanting a relationship it's not likely someone like this wants anything more than sexual pleasure.

Don't worry about the legality of the issue, worry about your personal safety. Please have respect for your mind, soul, and body; as well as your parents and their boundaries.

i have boundaries of my own, not set by my parents. what parent WANTS there child to become sexually active.

and dont get me wrong. i know what im doing is pretty stupid and initially dangerous. im not even sure if i would want a "relationship", because im not out. As of now i enjoy his company, and the other stuff we do.

theres also no way i would tell my parents about my sexual (in)activeness, its just personal. And I'd hate talk talk bad about my parents, but they are pretty oblivious. i can get away with about anything (not that i DO)

But yes, these are all things to keep in mind, and thankyou for you imput

[Human]

well if you've met once there's no problem with again

[Ambrosia]

If you have met, and you know he is not a predator, okay. Fine. That's you're own deal, but the fact doesn't change that meeting total strangers from the internet is very wrong and very dangerous. You need to be careful with who you talk to, and how far you take these online relationships.

I don't recommend you creating a relationship with this person, despite how "hot" he may be. The fact is that you don't actually know how old he is. Just because he says he is however old, doesn't mean he really is. He could be far older for all you know.

Be careful with it. If you hadn't already met him, I would be telling you not to even go near him.

[Abigballofdust]

He is 19 and you're 16, not too much of a gap, specially not if you want to keep it on a friendship level.
I highly suggest you meet him deeply before taking anything to a higher level because it's simply not safe for you.
Besides, as I said, 3 years is not a huge gap, happens in relationships all the time, just be sure that's really what you want and you're completely comfortable with him.

[ImCoolBeans]

If you have met, and you know he is not a predator, okay. Fine. That's you're own deal, but the fact doesn't change that meeting total strangers from the internet is very wrong and very dangerous. You need to be careful with who you talk to, and how far you take these online relationships.

I don't recommend you creating a relationship with this person, despite how "hot" he may be. The fact is that you don't actually know how old he is. Just because he says he is however old, doesn't mean he really is. He could be far older for all you know.

Be careful with it. If you hadn't already met him, I would be telling you not to even go near him.

This is very good advice. You have no way of telling who he really is, how old he is, whether the pictures are really of him, and if they are when they were really taken.