BF doesnt last

[funyun4282]

My BF doesnt last very long when having sex. Like a minute. We want to try those condoms that make a guy last longer. Has anyone tried these? Do they work? Any other suggestions?

Thanks

[ackmedsgirl666]

Do you have foreplay
Sometimes that works him up faster and the second there's the slightest bit of pleasure they release. This happens often to me and my boyfriend. We have foreplay before sex and then he will last only 5 minutes. I find if you cut down on fingering/ jerking etc he might last longer or if he hasn't been having. Sex for long he might not be used to the pleasure. I'm not sure if those condoms work if at all I think they would make things worse

[funyun4282]

we dont have much foreplay.

[PandaLeah]

I know that this is a problem for me too - sometimes I just work up my partner too much.. and boom goes the dynamite. I have learned to take it slow and sensual.. let him work me up..

[swisss21]

My BF usually works for more than 12 minutes on an average while he is stroking me. I think it is a nudity which works for him to get out of anxiety and performance tensions. As i always use nude lifestyle while at home. He always gets a due respect when he come my home or swims with me in the pool. I think mental relaxation is more necessary. While he is at my home, i always make him to walk naked, may be that is working.

[EmmyReeves]

Have him try stopping and starting, I had a guy who ended pretty quickly and that really helped him, plus it made his orgasm stronger - whenever he's close to an orgasm just have him stop and try something different for a while :)

[Jenna.]

One thing me and my boyfriend do sometimes which works well is we'll take "breaks" when we're having sex. Like we'll go slower for a few minutes or he'll do "something else" for a little while just to give himself time to get control of himself, for lack of a better word lol. And I like it because it adds some variety. I get to be satisfied in more than one way and he lasts longer. Just a thought.
My boyfriend typically doesn't really have an issue with not lasting, but it has happened a few times. Usually he can tell so we know to use our "break" method.

[Roninrv]

Seriously? my post was removed (along with a few others) from this when i was being constructive and trying to help out. This is a topic that concerns both male and female. Thought i would shed some of my own insight and what worked for me with a girl in the past.

Yes this is a girls section, but some topics can be answered by both. Seeing as this thread deals with sex between and man and a female (last i checked), it would be only logical to get opinions from both sexes.

You mods are terrible for removing those (thats my constructive criticism), no wonder so many people are left in the dark about such things.

[Bubbawhack]

Be careful with the longer lasting condoms, apparently they break easier.

[kentucky girl]

I agreed with what someone else said, take a break when he says he is about to orgasm. Have him just to stay still while still inside u

[Wesley1369]

ya dont go so fast. during the festivities take time for him to just stay in you for a while while you two kiss or something, helps him calm down some

[Wanderer_]

Bj first, then when he gets hard again after he'll last longer

You obviously feel incredible :)

[dontfiguremeout]

Bj first, then when he gets hard again after he'll last longer

You obviously feel incredible :)

Please don't bump threads more than 2 months inactive. This has been over a year now. :locked: