Am I Too Big?

[Deus]

Hi everyone,
I know there is already a thread on penis size but this is really important and I'm really worried, people tend not to reply as much on pre-made threads.

I might need some girls advice here as well. Anyway, I just turned fifteen and although I do look slightly older than the rest of my classmates in facial features etc, it is the size of my penis that really worries me. I have gone to many different penis-size sites with surveys etc and I am really worried, a question that people often ask is if it is normal for their penis to be small, but I have the opposite problem, my penis (when erect averages around 23cm), but this can also vary greatly (5cm either side). I have a girlfriend and I'm really worried that she will... You know... that we wont be able to do it when the time comes.

Although I am proud (in a stupid masculine way) to have a big penis, do you think I should see a doctor about this problem? If my penis can nearly reach 30cm without actually being with a girl, I'm really worried about what will actually happen when I have sex for the first time my girlfriend is not very big and I'm sure it wont fit, can someone please please help me. Any girls out there who have had sex please offer advice. I'm really worried.

[Hyper]

Ohhhh god........ Don't worry..

[Deus]

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Wow, that was helpful :|
Wait a minute, was that a moan!!?

Please, I need a serious answer.

[Hyper]

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Wow, that was helpful :|
Wait a minute, was that a moan!!?

Please, I need a serious answer.

That was very serious, as much as your masculine ego wants to hear ,, Yes you are a massive penis of nature '' no one with a brain will say it, and youre just in the right size ;P with lenght, not like the entire dick has to be stuffed yes.. Well you get the picture

[mynameisjane]

oh my god. well, i wouldnt complain.

[Maverick]

Boys Puberty :arrow: General Puberty

There's more to life than the size of your penis. You're fine.

[Squeegie]

Are you being serious? 23cm when erect? You can take like 4 hands to that wth.

[Dolphus Raymond]

First off, I don't think it's all that likely you'll reach 30cm (>11 inches). There's at best a minor outside chance. Most people see nearly all of their growth at once and just slightly more afterwards, but if you're already at 23cm (just over 9 inches), it seems improbable that you'll see another two entire inches.

You have a valid concern. I'm not going to sugarcoat it; there may some girls who are not rightly able to handle full-on vaginal sex with you. Anal sex will probably never be a realistic option, no matter what porn tells you. You'll have to learn how to do everything that lesser-endowed guys do and more. Make sure to exercise foreplay and proably use a lubricant. You also may have to teach yourself to make shallow strokes. It's very easy to hit the cervix with a penis of that size.

But, honestly, it's not going to be all that different, luckily. Even though nine inches is quite big, it's still only like 3 1/2 more inches more than the average penis. In other words, this is not at all an unaddressable problem. And, really, what you have to do is not so different than any other guy above a certain size.

Don't worry so much, and be sure to communicate with your girlfriend. Good luck, and I hope that is of assistance.

[Aηdy]

When it comes to sex just be very careful.

[Trebor]

You're complaining of having a big penis? lol, the rest of us should be so lucky. But you#re fine. "It aint what you got it's the way that you do it."

[MoveAlong]

First off, I don't think it's all that likely you'll reach 30cm (>11 inches). There's at best a minor outside chance. Most people see nearly all of their growth at once and just slightly more afterwards, but if you're already at 23cm (just over 9 inches), it seems improbable that you'll see another two entire inches.

You have a valid concern. I'm not going to sugarcoat it; there may some girls who are not rightly able to handle full-on vaginal sex with you. Anal sex will probably never be a realistic option, no matter what porn tells you. You'll have to learn how to do everything that lesser-endowed guys do and more. Make sure to exercise foreplay and proably use a lubricant. You also may have to teach yourself to make shallow strokes. It's very easy to hit the cervix with a penis of that size.

But, honestly, it's not going to be all that different, luckily. Even though nine inches is quite big, it's still only like 3 1/2 more inches more than the average penis. In other words, this is not at all an unaddressable problem. And, really, what you have to do is not so different than any other guy above a certain size.

Don't worry so much, and be sure to communicate with your girlfriend. Good luck, and I hope that is of assistance.
This is very insightful :) I couldn't say it any other way, perfect!
You're complaining of having a big penis? lol, the rest of us should be so lucky.

A lot of people worry about how big it is.

[Trebor]

But not that it's too big, most worry it's too small.

[Deus]

I would rather have a slightly below average size, then a size so large that it actually inhibits my ability to have easy sex :(

[krizidg]

rite well I had the same problem i went to see a doctor about it because... I am 15 and I have a 9 incher and and i thought i was odd or osmrething wroogn with me for being like that and am one of them paranoid people who thinks it matters what you look like ..... well anyway teh doctor said there isn't anything wrong it's just because of the genes you inherit from your father or whatever and now am completely alrite with it oh btw girl love big penis's well the ones i have been with have... some liek smaller ones it's all about chooseing the rite person... nd btw yourgirlfriend shouldn't care about how big or small it is :d


hoep that helps

because i kinda confused myself

[MoveAlong]

Penises don't vary THAT much (by 5cm or almost 2 inches)
but if your penis is actually 23cm (about 9 inches), it might be uncomfortable for some, but you can work that out with your girlfriend! =]

[Glasgow]

Enough with all these people going "Your complaining about having a big penis!? WHY!?"


I can understand how it would be a problem. Most girls will probably not be able to take in all 23cm of it, so you will have to learn how to limit how much you stick in. Try to only put it in about half way maybe abit past, she can tell you her limits. But yes this could be quite annoying because you will have to worry about how much you put it and when your gonna cum at the same time. Your girlfriend would probably love it, because its big and shes got alot to work with (oral and handjobs) but when it comes to sex she might not take it. Anyways im rambling now but goodluck with everything,.