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Cicero
February 5th, 2012, 06:59 PM
Help give me advice on making friends. I changed schools and at my last school I was well liked, but at this one I'm disliked. So I'm changing schools at the end of this school year. What tips will he give?
Desuetude
February 6th, 2012, 02:17 PM
Isn't the point of going to a therapist getting the tips?
I think you should just wait and see what he says. It will probably just be tips on social and make friends. I mean you can't make yourself ne popular, you just have to fit in somewhere and well liked people are often just nice people that get along with everyone, don't cause trouble and stuff.
I know it's not my place to say but if you are disliked then maybe you should try and face it. I mean not everyone in life is going to like you so wouldn't it be better to face it now and try to change it getting ready for the future instead of running away? Im sorry it's just my opinion and I mean no offence by it.
I hope the therapist helps. :-)
UnknownError
February 10th, 2012, 07:55 PM
Being popular isnt everything. It certainly isn't a very good reason to move schools tbh.
If you have even one good friend, that's worth 20 people that are only friends with you because you fit in with them. Wait it out and talk to a wider range of people. Im sure things will work out.
Steve Jobs
February 14th, 2012, 02:55 AM
You certainly can't walk into your new school and expect to be popular, to be liked and be such a celebrity.
You need to break the ice and show the kids at your new school that you're actually interested in wanting to know about them and genuine in making friends.
Don't bend yourself just to fit in, but listen to them and show some interest particularly in what they're interested in. Find common hobbies and activities and do something.
Be more outgoing, go around and talk to people, meet people.
Start up a club or organisation, or join a team. Find people that enjoy the things you like.
antiabort
February 14th, 2012, 10:21 PM
You're really gonna go to a therapist for that man? Just have a good personality, when I switched schools everyone hated me but now i'm friends with the same people who hated me. it's all about personality. Hell, even looks don't matter that much, I'm fat and still doing good. If i can do it so can you. Try making friends with a popular person, that earns you instant good reputation and friends.
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