Question is this conversation abusive??

[dreamer18xx]

Okay fist off this is going to be long. But I was getting driven to school and I had a really bad panick attack and I started crying telling my dad I was scared. That I was sad. (i have a anxiety disorder) Now I know I can over react about things so I may just be being a huge baby. But if you could read it I would appreciate other opinions . Thanks


Dad- Your sad?!! Makes me feel real good as a parent that I busted my ass all these years to bring you this far and you can't engage to get where you have to be! *laughs* Your sad? Good. Real good feels great! I'm tired of it. I'm tired of it. This ain't gonna work in the house! This right here ain't gonna work. Now I have a right to be pissed off!......Now I'm upset. Lose your father at 11 years old and tell me how fucking Sad you would be!!! Be like your mother thrown out to the streets not knowing when your gonna eat next tell me about how sad your gonna be!! Your sad!? I'm missing something. I don't know it must be me?.....I did pretty good for myself I can tell you that right now I didn't give my mother any shit either! I went to school every day. I wanted to stay home many of times to be sad, I didn't. Because my mother was out working and I was there for her and she needed me to be there for her. Just like me and mom need you to be there for us. Your just looking for an excuse to be sad thats all your looking for!.........and I need this right around christmas time this is great. Holidays bring out the best in you! This is really good so rewarding! My god what did I do to deserve this. You know what I just had it all these kids going to school that's normal.*

Me-*crying* I'm sorry*

Dad- don't be sorry. Just go home....Stay up in your room. Know what just drop out of school. Drop out. Do what you wanna do...... You ain't gonna last till your 18. Do what you wanna. go out on your own. Can't stand this shit!*

[canadaski]

Okay fist off this is going to be long. But I was getting driven to school and I had a really bad panick attack and I started crying telling my dad I was scared. That I was sad. (i have a anxiety disorder) Now I know I can over react about things so I may just be being a huge baby. But if you could read it I would appreciate other opinions . Thanks


Dad- Your sad?!! Makes me feel real good as a parent that I busted my ass all these years to bring you this far and you can't engage to get where you have to be! *laughs* Your sad? Good. Real good feels great! I'm tired of it. I'm tired of it. This ain't gonna work in the house! This right here ain't gonna work. Now I have a right to be pissed off!......Now I'm upset. Lose your father at 11 years old and tell me how fucking Sad you would be!!! Be like your mother thrown out to the streets not knowing when your gonna eat next tell me about how sad your gonna be!! Your sad!? I'm missing something. I don't know it must be me?.....I did pretty good for myself I can tell you that right now I didn't give my mother any shit either! I went to school every day. I wanted to stay home many of times to be sad, I didn't. Because my mother was out working and I was there for her and she needed me to be there for her. Just like me and mom need you to be there for us. Your just looking for an excuse to be sad thats all your looking for!.........and I need this right around christmas time this is great. Holidays bring out the best in you! This is really good so rewarding! My god what did I do to deserve this. You know what I just had it all these kids going to school that's normal.*

Me-*crying* I'm sorry*

Dad- don't be sorry. Just go home....Stay up in your room. Know what just drop out of school. Drop out. Do what you wanna do...... You ain't gonna last till your 18. Do what you wanna. go out on your own. Can't stand this shit!*

I suffer from anxiety too. This sounds like what I've heard from my parents. They think I can just suck it up and achieve 90s in school and forget about my problems. It's not your fault, it doesn't matter what your problems are like in relation to everybody else's. All that matters are your emotions and feelings.

To be honest, it sounds as if you have bigger things to worry about at the moment than school. Don't drop out but get a doctors note so your teachers will take it easy on you. Don't leave it alone because it won't fix itself. Get a counselor or therapist, somone who you can unload all of your stuff on and that can help you make sense of it and get through it. It will help, I've only seen mine twice and it feels amazing.

[1_21Guns]

He had no right to say things like that to you, but like Liam said you should get a doctors note particularity if it's becoming life affecting. Anxiety is as you may already know actually quite common amongst teenagers, and by no means does it make you "abnormal". When adults feel under pressure or pulled down by things they will often take it out on the nearest person because they let it build up and then one thing can just tip them over.
I'd try not to take it too much to heart unless it becomes a regular thing. -hug-

[eggy101]

Look i understand were he is coming from you always wanting to cry and being anxiety, i understand that it all bottles up then explodes, but him being a older male needs him to control himself but he wouldnt of ment it to hurt