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Loner Girl6
June 3rd, 2007, 11:08 PM
Howdy,I'm sorta new here but I have a few questions I was hoping for answers too.

Well okay the first is about a friend.We've known eachother for about 10 years(and I'm only 15 so most of my life) but recently I've felt differently towards her.I'm not exaclty sure what I mean here I guess it just kinda feels like when we hug it's not so much in a friendly way anymore.She doesn't know I'm bi and I don't think she knows I'm sorta attracted to her but for some reason it feels like she's flirting back.I mean we even had a joke going for a while where we told everyone we were dating and I ended it cause it hit to close to home.Anyways I'm wondering what I should do.Should I confront her about or just let it go?

Number 2....Well being bi at such a young age it's hard to find girls willing to admit to their interest in the same sex.And I've felt really lonely alot lately because in high school everyone's dating someone and if your not you feel like a major loser.So I was wondering if anyone had any advice on finding someone my age with the same sexual preferences.I mean I can't go to a gay club and I can't post an online profile,so what is there for me?Anyways poste away.Anything,even if you think it's stupid and not very helpful.Thankz.
Sapphire
June 4th, 2007, 04:46 AM
What's wrong with finding a guy to be with? I mean if no one knows then best bet is to go with guys untill you are a bit older.
Loner Girl6
June 4th, 2007, 05:13 PM
What's wrong with finding a guy to be with? I mean if no one knows then best bet is to go with guys untill you are a bit older.

Guys don't really like me.Alot of things about me,including my height,are sort of intimidating
Sapphire
June 4th, 2007, 05:18 PM
Give it a little time, focus on just having a great time with people. Really good friends can fill the "void" that can exist when you don't have a partner.
Loner Girl6
June 4th, 2007, 05:55 PM
Give it a little time, focus on just having a great time with people. Really good friends can fill the "void" that can exist when you don't have a partner.

One problem with that,I don't have many friends.Nobody I spend any real time with.I sit alone at lunch and spend all my free time watching t.v. or on the computer.I guess that's one reason for the lonliness huh.
Sapphire
June 6th, 2007, 07:39 AM
Look in to whether a youth group is on in your area. Maybe consider striking up a bit of a conversation with someone from school. Go out with some of the friends you do have.
Loner Girl6
June 8th, 2007, 05:47 PM
Anyone else?Thoughts,questions?
roxy_lolol
June 19th, 2007, 11:54 AM
About the friend thing, I kinda understand. I feel that way about my best friend, but I don't know how to tell her really. I s'pose you could just say something little to her, maybe on MSN and if it all goes wrong pretend you were joking?
Loner Girl6
June 19th, 2007, 10:01 PM
Ya well I sorta told her I was bi and she didn't freak-out so theres hope for me yet.I'll keep flirting since that's all I have the guts to do.
A.J.
July 7th, 2007, 11:15 PM
You could tell your friend seeing as how your so close and all. and becuase of her age and being in puberty she might be curious as well because most teens are. I think you can talk to her if youve been friends for that long.
Loner Girl6
July 11th, 2007, 01:37 PM
You could tell your friend seeing as how your so close and all. and becuase of her age and being in puberty she might be curious as well because most teens are. I think you can talk to her if youve been friends for that long.

I hinted I flirted....I did almost everything except come right out and tell her I like her.I just figure If she liked me at all she'd get it and she doesn't so...ya.But I guess I should never give up on love...I'm so cliche lol.