How to find a gay/bi guy.

[jibbi]

Guys im lost. i like this guy but he says he is straight! i really need to find a gay/bi guy.. anything to look out for?

[Kamloops.man]

I'm kind of stuck on this myself. = S

[Loner Girl6]

Try facebook.Start a profile under a fake name,make a club for the gay/bi guys in your area and take your pick.

[jibbi]

Dont have my school :(

[Loner Girl6]

Just put your city then.

[Mirataku]

or start a myspace profile, that is how i met my boyfriend

[LateForTheSky]

This is a hard one there will probably be more than u in your school that is gay or curious all u need is good communication skills, look out for the signs and see how much they try and pull back from the conversation directly sexualy orientated. It will most probably be okward but who said lifes easy.

[boy_lover88]

or start a myspace profile, that is how i met my boyfriend

That is also an extremely bad way to attract all those unwanted men/pedos. That's why I never use Myspace, despite me being of the legal age. =/

[mattyboy28]

This is a hard one there will probably be more than u in your school that is gay or curious all u need is good communication skills, look out for the signs and see how much they try and pull back from the conversation directly sexualy orientated. It will most probably be okward but who said lifes easy.

So, would i have to spill the beans to get a guy? I dont like telling people about my sexuality...only two peole (that ive met in real life) know, and that would be my best friend and my mother (who as of rite now i regret telling). Is there any other way of getting a guy?

[helpingman]

Removing Website.

easy. most of the time there are kids on there at are 17 some times younger that are looking for a hook up. It's under personalls, all free just make sure it's safe.


The website given is for over 18's and therefore unsuitable for the VT as a whole.
~redcar

[Unknown_kid]

join a swimming club, most people in swimming at my school, and tennis, are either asian or bi/gay.

[dushanbe4]

Ask on myspace, there are plenty of people! ^^

[dannyley]

i wouldnt use myspace/bebo/facebook for anything like this, you get loads of pedos, yeah use them 4 like chattin with ur mates but making a fake 1 is just as bad as the pedos in some way isnt it?

and even on sites like this, on vteen.com their are 22year olds askin for 13-16yr olds im addresses to swap pics, if u do decide to use mypace etc theen be carefull, and dont meet up onn ur own, i sound like a concerned father, lol

[Crazysam]

i wouldnt use myspace/bebo/facebook for anything like this, you get loads of pedos, yeah use them 4 like chattin with ur mates but making a fake 1 is just as bad as the pedos in some way isnt it?

and even on sites like this, on vteen.com their are 22year olds askin for 13-16yr olds im addresses to swap pics, if u do decide to use mypace etc theen be carefull, and dont meet up onn ur own, i sound like a concerned father, lol

oh my ^^DITTO^^ you can never trust people you have met online theres so many ways of tricking people and there are so many perverts out there! I don't think it would be a verry good idea to do what some of you have suggestted. Maybee good if we lived in a pervert free society but unfortunately we don't so you have to be verry carefull.

[george]

If your school has one , join your schools wrestling team ;)

[Vermillion]

join a swimming club, most people in swimming at my school, and tennis, are either asian or bi/gay.
I think I lol'd when I read that XD
Regardless, just try to talk to a lot of guys at school. Eventually, you'll make some friends, become closer and then be open with your feelings.
However, note that I said "eventually", as being blunt about liking a certain guy without knowing he likes you first can be very risky.
The best thing to do (well, for me anyways) would to be very subtle about liking someone, as to not totally freak him out if he does freak out.

(P.S. And ofcourse, I use the word "he" as a general term.)

[Sugaree]

or start a myspace profile, that is how i met my boyfriend

Ok one note to everybody about Myspace.com. It is a very bad website and can cause very bad things. They have discovered crimes on that site. That's why I don't use it (And my parents locked it with Netgear Firewall! DAMMIT!)