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Exo212
February 4th, 2012, 03:03 PM
So.... let's see if I can sum this up.
A few weeks ago, I was struggling with depression. I *really* wasn't handling it and I had my first thoughts of suicide ever. I decided to talk to my friend about it and next thing I know, Sheriff's Deputies come to my house to preform a "Welfare Check" (basicly deciding if i need to be restrained for my own safety)
I "passed" the check and then had a long, frankly, painful talk with my parents. Turns out the friend I had talked to told his parents, and they called the school...etc. At first I was shocked that he would betray my trust like that, but then I realized that he was just helping me. We started texting each other and I told him almost everything, and he earned my trust. (I'd put my life in his hands) So I decided to tell him, face-to-face, that I was gay. I sorta toed around it for a while, saying that it was something I had taken a great deal of time realizing about myself, and it's something that could be seen as terrible. Eventually I had to just out and say it. he didn't say anything for a while as he was shocked.(longest few moments of my life.:eek:) but then he smiled and gave me a hug, saying that he was fine with it and he didn't care that I am gay. :) I was completely overjoyed, and I've been able to deal with my deppresion some much better having a friend that knows absolutely everything about me and still loves me like a brother!
so...that's my story, just wanted to put it out there!:)

Dimitri
February 4th, 2012, 03:17 PM
David, that is a friend that you can keep right there, he is amazing and caring, keep him, confide in him.

I am happy that you were able to come out eventually, there are too many of us who still need to and we do not do so for fear of the outcome, David, he is valuable and never let him go.

Exo212
February 4th, 2012, 03:35 PM
He is a great person! I don't know what I would have done without him. He has helped me so much and he's the best person I know :).

Can'tHelpIt
February 4th, 2012, 08:58 PM
Aww sweet

Abyssal Echo
February 4th, 2012, 11:53 PM
thats awsome that you have a friend like that.

Teensensation32
February 5th, 2012, 05:40 PM
Haven't come fully out yet told one person and she understands :) but don't know what to do about my other friends that might to be so understanding :s

jamesscott
February 5th, 2012, 06:57 PM
congrats!!!! thats a very sweet story gald to hear ur happy agai!!! best of luck to u

Fourth Dimension
February 7th, 2012, 03:33 AM
That's a true friend there my best friend and I are the same way only difference is we are both part of the lgbt community he's gay I'm bi who woulda thought lol 15 years of friendship and we both like boy who woulda known lol so congrats your friend is a keeper

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