Can't Get Over My Ex :/

[Ace_of_Spades]

It's been about a week since he's dumped me, we didn't even have a fight, he just told me that he never loved me and was just with me so he could get through his breakup, so pretty much he was just using me, but i still really want him to take me back :/ He's hurt me so many times, and all of my friends told me to dump him, but could never bring myself to it, and i just want to be back with him. He was the only person who's ever told me they love me, even my parents don't say that to me, and even though it was a lie i still really care for him.

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

So you say he said he loved you, but when he dumped you he told you he never loved you.

He was using you, and if you ask me that isn't the kind of person worth wanting back.

You'll find someone who will tell you they love and mean it someday. It can be hard to get over a partner, but just give it time. You will find someone better than him.

[prodigy1996]

OOOHHHHHH! that same thing happened to me! except with sex. Honestly dude, If you wait long enough, youll get over him. Or, whenever you start wanting him, think of all the bad things hes done to you.

[Dimitri]

It's been about a week since he's dumped me, we didn't even have a fight, he just told me that he never loved me and was just with me so he could get through his breakup, so pretty much he was just using me, but i still really want him to take me back :/ He's hurt me so many times, and all of my friends told me to dump him, but could never bring myself to it, and i just want to be back with him. He was the only person who's ever told me they love me, even my parents don't say that to me, and even though it was a lie i still really care for him.

Honey, please listen, he isn't worth it, i know it seems like he was the best fucking thing in the world but that is a lie you have been forced to believe. Yes, he told you he loved you but did he really mean that, did it feel like he honestly said it to you with the intentions of loving you forever?

Why would he, if he loved you tell you later on down the road that he never loved you....yes, he could have been afraid that relationship was getting intense and that he needed an escape but you should ask yourself, did he ever do anything to prove to you that he loved you?

[Ace_of_Spades]

Thank you all for your advice. I thought about it, and i just deleted him from everything. My phone, my ipod, and facebook. I said goodbye to him first, though, but i'm done torturing myself by staring at our old texts and stuff. So it was hard, but now i'm going to force myself to forget :(

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

It's for the best, you'll find someone who will care for you treat you much better than he did.

[Ace_of_Spades]

I know it's for the best, but it's just sooo hard, lol. I keep wanting to text him, but i have to stay strong. And i will, mostly because my friend said she's gonna punch me in the face if i text him, and i really don't doubt her ^^

[Dimitri]

I know it's for the best, but it's just sooo hard, lol. I keep wanting to text him, but i have to stay strong. And i will, mostly because my friend said she's gonna punch me in the face if i text him, and i really don't doubt her ^^

That friend is a keeper right there, hey bud, if you ever need to vent let me know and I can listen....anytime, hit me up.

[jamesscott]

aww thats so sad and cute. Try moving on theres alot of nice guys out there waiting for a guy like u. keep looking and keep ur chin up best wishes, James

[Ace_of_Spades]

Thanks :) And i met someone who's really nice and so much better already :D Things are starting to look up ^^