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beebs
February 3rd, 2012, 09:15 PM
Me and one of my close friends have been talking about getting together as a couple, as we both know we want to, but theres a few "problems" with it, he doesnt think he's good enough for me, and hes worried what people will think because he is massivily taller than me, and ive told him id find it difficult as he looks like and remindes me of my abusive ex-boyfriend but he is completley diffrent in personality.

He has told me he "loves" me, i dont believe in love at my age, but i think he means he likes me and whats to be with me. He told me he wanted to have a time being my boyfriend before he died, so he asked me to be his girlfriend for 20 seconds. I thought it was so cute.

Do you think this could work? And what can we do to fix the problems?

Buranri
February 4th, 2012, 12:05 AM
...what exactly are the problems here?

brandon44
February 4th, 2012, 12:16 AM
Yeah, what are the problems? And if worrying about what people think about you two as a couple is a problem, then there is no reason to date each other. And you don't believe in love at your age? Or do you mean to say you hate what love is at your age?

beebs
February 4th, 2012, 06:21 AM
he doesnt think he's good enough for me, and hes worried what people will think because he is massivily taller than me, and ive told him id find it difficult as he looks like and remindes me of my abusive ex-boyfriend but he is completley diffrent in personality.



there the problems, and yeah i guess...