I'm 13 and guys stare at me like a peace of meat

[Yehudis13]

Hey guys. I'm 13 years old, and I have lots of friends who are guys. I am not sexually attracted to any of them, we are just friends. Lately I've noticed that a few of them stare at my boobs all the time. I don't feel comfortable with that. What should I do?

[UnknownError]

Tell them. Don't do it in a harassing way (unless an argument is what you want) but just say that they're making you uncomfortable. If you say it to them in front of a few other people they could get embarrassed and then will most likely stop it, so you could do that.

[Electra Heart]

Welcome to the magical world of hormones, for about 10 more years, those lovely lady lumps in your shirt will pose as a secret lover, something to stare at when they're bored, and something guy's will want to put their penises between. If you catch them staring, call them out on it, they'll be publicly humiliated and never bother you again :P

[Mortal Coil]

Don't take it personally, it's just the way their brains are wired cause of all the hormones. Just tell them, and maybe wear higher-cut shirts.

[jamesscott]

its just their hormones ask them to stop

[Yehudis13]

Thanks for all your help you guys. I'll try that and see if it works.

[christianteen]

I'm sorry to hear this but it's their hormones. Just talk to them nicely about it and tell them that you don't like it without being agro or upset.

[AppealToReason]

Ignore it, call them out on it, or just take it as a compliment. They find you attractive, that should make you happy. As long as they don't try anything, I don't see why there's much of a problem. Just looking them in the eyes will probably scare them off. Besides, if you haven't started already, you'll more than likely start checking some guys out as you get older. Hormones, learn to love them.

[Auzzie 94]

Wear higher cut shirts and even tell them that you don't feel comfortable when they stare at your breasts. They are looking at them because their hormones are starting to kick in and go crazy. You should really take it as a compliment though, also they probably secretly find you just really attractive. So many guys have that girl they secretly like, or find attractive and want to do stuff with. But, you seem like you don't want any of that so just ignore it and wear shirts that don't expose your cleavage. Good luck with it.

[Yehudis13]

Well, it's not that I don't like the attention, it's just that, well, their my friends, and nothing more, and I don't want to ruin a friendship over a stupid little crush. Besides, I'm not ready for any type of relationship yet, considering I'm only 13.

[joshduder]

many guys stare at boobs coz its appealing to them..but tell them nicely or if u kno they're rowdy then move away!!

[IAmTheLizardQueen]

"Hey; guess what? My eyes are up here." works every time.
I have a shirt that says "These are not the boobs you're looking for. Move along."

[Magenta]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: