Would a guy think I'm lying about my virginity?

[mynameisjane]

i've recently checked and i'm positive that i have no hymen. i coulda torn it that time when i was little riding on the bar in front of the seat with my sister peddaling and we rode over a speed bump pretty fast and i got hurt. i coulda torn it while horseback riding. i coulda torn it when i penetrated myself while masterbating. actually, i'm pretty positive i tore it while masterbating. everyone at school knows that i'm a virgin. so i'm worried that when i have sex, the guy i'm with will think i lied about being a virgin. i dont think id want to tell him i tore it while masterbating because even though i know nothings wrong with masterbating, i dont feel comfortable telling anyone. but i dont want to lie.

[Maverick]

Well if the guy is educated then he would know that just because the hymen didn't break doesn't mean you've had sex already. If he doesn't believe you he doesn't sound worth it to me. Personally I wouldn't think you're lying because I know the circumstances. If he doesn't trust you enough to go by your word, then forget him.

Also, I think this would be better in the general puberty forum so guys can give their opinion, too.

[Sapphire]

From my personal experience, guys are too caught up in the fact that they'll be getting some to worry about it.
But Anthony is right, if a guy doesn't believe you then he doesn't really seem worth it.

[Dolphus Raymond]

Most guys educated enough to know what breaking the hymen is like would know you aren't lying. If the mutual trust is strong enough for there to be sex, I'd sure hope he's taking your word for it.

I also agree that most guys would be too mentally preoccupied.

[DS_furio]

suposidly it hurts so its one less thing we have to think about, i presume its quite easy to breack its only a thin membrain so its doesnt really mean anything

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well, if he's dumb enough to not believe you, then he's probably dumb enough to not even now what a hymen IS, much less where it's located and what it's there for...:D

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he shudnt

[Obscene Eyedeas]

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