Auzzie 94
February 1st, 2012, 09:42 AM
Girls have you ever been to tight for your BF/sexual partner?
Guys have you ever had a GF/sexual partner who was too tight for you?
I'm having a bit of a problem with a friend of mine, she approached me about wanting to lose her virginity to me, we've been friends since 2nd or 3rd grade, she trusts me more than anyone else and she's single and doesn't want a boyfriend but wants to have sex. After some talking I gave her the okay, and later that night we got to it. It started off with a good 45 minutes or more of foreplay (kissing, feeling, oral etc) and she brought some lube, she put some on my penis and stroked it and she put some around the entrance of her vagina, we were lubed up pretty well, I tried getting her as relaxed as possible and I tried to put my penis in but it was hurting her and just the head of my penis was in. I kept asking her if it was okay for me to put it in further she said she should be okay, so I pushed it in a little further but she couldn't take it and we stopped. She kept apologising, made me feel bad tbh. I tried loosening her up a little with my fingers and we tried again same thing happened, I couldn't get it in with out it hurting her, it was a really tight fit just to get maybe a quarter of me into her. She literally said "fuck it, shove it in as hard and as fast as possible, but I told her that i'm not doing that because obviously it would hurt her like crazy... in the end we just finished up with oral and that was it. She's been wanting to try again but I think the same thing will happen and i'm not sure how or even if I can get around this problem. Have any people out there (guys or girls) had this problem and overcame it and had successful and pain free intercourse?
Guys have you ever had a GF/sexual partner who was too tight for you?
I'm having a bit of a problem with a friend of mine, she approached me about wanting to lose her virginity to me, we've been friends since 2nd or 3rd grade, she trusts me more than anyone else and she's single and doesn't want a boyfriend but wants to have sex. After some talking I gave her the okay, and later that night we got to it. It started off with a good 45 minutes or more of foreplay (kissing, feeling, oral etc) and she brought some lube, she put some on my penis and stroked it and she put some around the entrance of her vagina, we were lubed up pretty well, I tried getting her as relaxed as possible and I tried to put my penis in but it was hurting her and just the head of my penis was in. I kept asking her if it was okay for me to put it in further she said she should be okay, so I pushed it in a little further but she couldn't take it and we stopped. She kept apologising, made me feel bad tbh. I tried loosening her up a little with my fingers and we tried again same thing happened, I couldn't get it in with out it hurting her, it was a really tight fit just to get maybe a quarter of me into her. She literally said "fuck it, shove it in as hard and as fast as possible, but I told her that i'm not doing that because obviously it would hurt her like crazy... in the end we just finished up with oral and that was it. She's been wanting to try again but I think the same thing will happen and i'm not sure how or even if I can get around this problem. Have any people out there (guys or girls) had this problem and overcame it and had successful and pain free intercourse?