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gabers56
January 31st, 2012, 10:19 PM
I became friends with a boy named Sam this year and he has been a better friend to me and we got really close after I showed him my pretty friend. He says he liked her and they had a thing but never dated and she doesn't like him anymore. I would be able to talk to sam about alot and he'd always respond to me when he knew about my pretty friend. Was he using me? My other friend asked him if he was and he said he may have been wired (wired jokingly) but he wouldn't do that. Also his friends said he'd been used before so he knows what it's like. He doesn't ever text me back anymore now that him and my pretty friend aren't talkin anymore. WAs he or was he not using me?

Djentleman
February 1st, 2012, 01:48 AM
I had sort of the same thing and funnily enough it was with someone. Cut the long story short, he'd only ever meet up with me if I was with my friend who he fancied and he only ever called or texted me to find out if she would be hanging out with me. I figured he was using me, so he probably is doing the same.

Desuetude
February 1st, 2012, 11:02 AM
Well i'd say he was using you. It seems that when he got what he wanted he just decided that he doesnt want to be friends with you anymore. A real friend wouldn't just drop you as soon as he dumped the girl you're friends with.
I think you should just forget about him, hes not even worth thinking about or fretting over. Make other friends that you know you can definitly trust and arn't going to just forget about you.
It was a mistake to trust him and you learn from your mistakes, next time make sure the friendship is genuine for the right reasons. :)

Brookie Ugene Wagner
February 1st, 2012, 07:31 PM
I think he was most definitely using you without any question, because he wanted to get close to your pretty friend.

botwa
February 2nd, 2012, 09:13 AM
he can't have used you as you showed him your pretty friend after you met as I understood

Djentleman
February 2nd, 2012, 09:51 AM
he can't have used you as you showed him your pretty friend after you met as I understood

Yeah but people talk and he must have heard about here from someone else or possibly seen her with him.

Rayquaza
February 5th, 2012, 05:02 AM
I think he was using you, definately. What a dick. He doesn't need you. But, you are worth much more than he is in the world, and its clear that he is sad using you to get to him. Don't talk to him again. Let him go. He wasn't a friend. He was an idiot.

gabers56
February 5th, 2012, 11:51 PM
Uh oh