experiment problem..

[Anima]

Ok i was talking with my friend and jerking off came up and blah blah blah.
It got out that wed both wouldnt mind experimenting, and he brought it up that we should and i agreed and we started to make plans to hang out. But then he had to go, and now when i try to chat him he just ignores me. even in school i tried talking to him but he kinda brushed me off. My question is what did i do wrong? and is he ignoring me for a reason, im kinda confused. :confused:

[Mr. Awesome]

He may be embarrassed about the topic that you discussed and is unsure about how to be around you now.

Try directing conversation at him in a group setting. Like hangIng around with a few friends and there is a conversation happening. You can direct the conversation towards him so he has to talk to you.

This could be a good way for you to start talking again and reemove any awkwardness between you too

[artist2894]

He's probably super nervous about it and feels awkward. Same thing happened to me. Friends with a guy, didn't mind experimenting and what not, and then he started making plans to come out to see me (he lives in another city) and i kinda just brushed him off. It never happened and we don't talk anymore. So, like me, he's probably really nervous to do anything and probably intimidated of your readiness to experiment? so yeah, just let it go for now. Just hang out in group settings, do what the guy above me says, and just see if he starts talking to u normally again. or maybe a situation will occur where u guys are alone and he'll be up for it.

[danny7]

maybe he was drunk when he asked you, or he thought about it more n decided not to, try to talk to him, he mite be in an uncofortable position rite now

[Christheman]

He must likely changed his mind. Give him a week of two he'll come around

[DirtyDog78]

Maibe the subject kind of made him feel unconfortable, but he will talk to you at some point

[Anima]

but when i was talking to him about it at the time, he was completly open and fine about it. its just now that hes like kinda ignoring me.

[crustbag]

maybe he feels guilty

[Tonebone88]

Probably feels weird about what you talked about. Did he tell you any big secrets?

[User Does Not Exist]

I'd guess he's feeling guilty or changed his mind about experimenting. When you're around him, don't mention anything about "hang out" plans and just go with the flow.

[muddygrand]

Just act like you never asked. It can be a weird topic for someone who has never talked about it before