I don't fucking understand my ex..

[Jordan1234]

Well.. My ex is very good person.. She is the most amazing girl I ever met.. She always care about other less about her... So let me tell you...

Me and my gf broke up before 15 - 17 days... I wasn't talking to her since 7 days passed from our break up.. Then she messaged me on facebook.. I was surprised and started talking like friends.. But when we broke up she said she don't want to be friend with me.. But now she is telling me that there is still hope to be again with me... I don't fucking get her.. Before 3 days she told me .. That there isn't something that we need to talk about.. I said OK.. After 2 hrs sh e called me lol. And said what are you doing.. I said nothing sitting then we were talking for about 10 mins.. And we are in same school i am opposite of her class.. And I always see her.. She told me that she can't forget me she want but she can't.. Now she is with other guy.. And she said she didn't have something with him.. only holding hands ... Idk wtf is happening with her.. Help me pls.. do you think she still loves me ? Or she is just playing?

[Ambrosia]

I'm just going to say, this post was very hard to understand, but I will try to help out.

She sounds desperate. Sometimes when a person doesn't want to be alone, they will continuously keep their ex on a chain so that they can pull them back in if they ever feel they need someone there.

I recommend you just cut it off there, and tell her you only want to be friends. You're just in for a world of hurt, and you're going to end up looking silly if you let her drag you around like that.

[Lakai]

Shes kindof confusing lol

[fitzman16]

i think personally she is having regrets to breaking up...only reason they still talk to u everyday like that

[christianteen]

This is the twelve year old is it not? I really don't know. Perhaps she just thinks she was the break up was a little harsh and irrational?

[botwa]

some people just can't be alone and need somebody just anybody

[Mortal Coil]

She probably does want to get back together, but is also worried that it won't work out. this other guy serves two purpouses: as a plan B if you don't come back to her, and to make you jealous.
If I were you, I'd tell her that you'd rather remain friends. This girl is manipulative and will probably hurt you.

[ImCoolBeans]

She probably does want to get back together, but is also worried that it won't work out. this other guy serves two purpouses: as a plan B if you don't come back to her, and to make you jealous.
If I were you, I'd tell her that you'd rather remain friends. This girl is manipulative and will probably hurt you.

I don't think I would have said it any differently. I think that she does want to be back with you, but she doesn't know if it will work out so she is hesitant. The boy she was holding hands with is her rebound guy, she wants a boyfriend - so if it doesn't happen with you she'll have him. And he'll also make you a bit jealous, so if she does come back she hopes to have you wanting her.

I think you're better off telling her that it isn't going to work out, she seems extremely controlling and manipulative. Some girls just aren't worth your time, and there are plenty of them out there.