how do you find out your own sexuality

[prettyprincess209]

hey im a thriteen year old girl and i have mixed thoughts about my sexuality because im in to guys but girls turn me on when i masterbate how do know what it is ? please help also tell me how you foun out to help me think thanks xx:D

[Rayquaza]

Well, there is a thread available here that may help: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=125182

Finding your sexuality can be a difficult road to take. You WILL need to give it some time. Rather than thinking about what turns you on, think about what gender you are willing to spend the rest of your life with. Would you really be happy with a girl? Or with a guy? Since you're thirteen it's early days. But look into your heart, maybe find one person you are into, and you'll never know what you might uncover about yourself ;)

[beccaweiser]

Hey, prettyprincess209,

I'll just add that, whatever you discover about yourself, you should be happy because it's who you are. Don't judge yourself if you find that there's an aspect about you that you might not like...or that you think others might not like.

If you like yourself, then others will like you, too.

Becca

[prettyprincess209]

ok thankyou

[christianteen]

I've never really 'found out' about my sexuality because I've just always liked girls and I've never thought of anything different.

[ImCoolBeans]

Questions for Both Boys & Girls :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Fourth Dimension]

See I've always known there was something different about me and after a while I kinda just was like oh I like boys and girls

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[Mortal Coil]

Girls are so sexualized in our cultue that it's really possible that you're just straight.
It's also possible that you're just really hormonal and kind of want to have sex with almost anybody.
Remember that nobody is completely straight, and your sexuality is never going to hinder your ability to get on in life, especially in this less ignorant, more tolerant age. Don't worry about it, do what you want, and it'll become more obvious as you gain life experience.
Definitely don't worry though, you'll figure it out :)

[prettyprincess209]

thankyou everyone that has replied to this post :)