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kaiba
January 30th, 2012, 06:54 AM
A few weeks ago i went on a school camp which was two weeks long and i would have to share a tent with 4 other guys. I posted a few threads before cuz i was kinda nervous about jerking on camp and when i would be able to do it....
Well after a week i was too horny and i decided to do it quietly, i got caught by another guy and one thing led to another and we all 5 of us started wanking. We didn't touch each other just watching.
But it was only having fun right? It doesn't mean i'm gay does it? I enjoyed it but....idk.
I mean its a gay thing to do in my eyes so does that mean i think I'M gay!? I'm a bit confused about the whole thing.
Stronger
January 30th, 2012, 06:59 AM
Not exactly gay, along the lines of experimenting but not fully, sounds to me like you guys just had fun :P
Young Wolf
January 30th, 2012, 09:46 AM
Just experimenting - you all enjoyed it and may or may not happen again. Just enjoyment in being young and horny.
Corza8085
January 30th, 2012, 10:04 AM
It's fine, your just experimenting. :)
supreme
January 30th, 2012, 11:03 AM
gay.
Schnope
January 30th, 2012, 11:12 AM
Not gay at all, you were just fooling around and experimenting as most teenagers do.
mfupi2
January 30th, 2012, 12:00 PM
But it was only having fun right? It doesn't mean i'm gay does it? I enjoyed it but....idk.
I mean its a gay thing to do in my eyes so does that mean i think I'M gay!? I'm a bit confused about the whole thing.
First, you're gay if you love boys. Just having sex with boys doesn't make you gay (but it's a good indicator. Some straight guys like to have sex with a guy once in awhile.) About one third to one half of straight men admit to having some kind of homosexual experience. And that figure is going to be low as it's not accounting for all the men who HAVE had a homosexual experience but WON'T admit to it.
If you enjoyed it, just enjoy that and embrace it. You don't need to run off and get a boyfriend and start telling people you're gay if you don't want to.
boosterboy
January 30th, 2012, 12:14 PM
It's not gay, just experimenting
Short Circuit
January 30th, 2012, 12:53 PM
Its not gay, nor is it experimenting as you only did yourselves and not each other. Masturbation is not sex either. You had your fun, enjoyed it, but feel a little guilty, but there is no need to be.
matt25
January 30th, 2012, 01:31 PM
You always tend to do that on camps etc as a teenager. Everyone I know has..
crustbag
January 30th, 2012, 03:51 PM
not gay just experamenting
Tonebone88
January 30th, 2012, 05:46 PM
You're just experimenting with the idea of sexuality itself. No big deal.
RadioPlayer
January 30th, 2012, 05:48 PM
Nahhh, guys do this all the time. It's just hormones and curiosity.
crustbag
January 30th, 2012, 05:50 PM
sounds pretty normal
leafgreenangel
January 30th, 2012, 09:55 PM
its not gay, many people experiment... you don't have to feel bad for being curious
Ben_E
April 7th, 2012, 12:59 PM
Not gay, just experimenting, and thats totally normal
smd11451
April 7th, 2012, 01:18 PM
I agree with the above posts. You're gay if you have emotional attraction to other guys (basically, if you fall "in love" with a guy over a girl). Experimenting or sexual arousal doesn't make you gay
randy.boii
April 7th, 2012, 01:22 PM
i jerk with my dude friends sometimes its not gay
swimmerboy95
April 7th, 2012, 02:11 PM
Definitely not gay. When dudes get horny crazy stuff can happen but it definitely does not mean you are gay. In my mind that doesn't even really count as experimentation.
senior.2013
April 7th, 2012, 02:34 PM
Youre only gay if you develop an emotional attraction to the same sex. It sounds like you were just being a normal teen and doing a little experimenting. Not a problem.
Stryker125
April 7th, 2012, 03:03 PM
No, you're not gay. You're young and horny.
UTurn
April 7th, 2012, 03:36 PM
Actions don't make you gay, gayness is an emotional attraction to guys.
randomme
April 7th, 2012, 04:19 PM
No not at all
OregonStateDude
April 7th, 2012, 04:47 PM
It wasn't even close to being anything gay. You guys never touched each other. Trust me, I know what being gay is all about.
VirtualGuy012
April 7th, 2012, 07:21 PM
I wouldn't consider it gay
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