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prodigy1996
January 29th, 2012, 09:47 PM
So I'm a bisexual 15yo and I want to start dating some guys, but other than asking if they date guys, is there any other way to find out if they are bi/gay? Sorry if this is worded weirdly! :what:

spw184
January 30th, 2012, 04:04 AM
1.) Identify your target
2.) Get to know him, dont mention that you are bisexual, but bring up sexuality a lot, see how he reacts. Watch his body language.
3.) Decide: Do you think he's gay?
If yes:
Follow one of the following formats:

Blame it on rumor
ex: So I overheard some girls saying you were gay, for real?
Get defensive
Ex: What the hell? Im pretty sure I saw you checking me out *Insert time* What are you? Gay?
Get Offensive
Ex: Tell me the truth, are you gay? *Repeat every single day*
Give him perfect conditions
Ex: Once your good friends, invite him over to your house for a concert or something. Touch him gently, but without being obvious. If he is gay, he will most likely notice your advances and respond, if he's not, he will ignore them. Remember, straight guys are stupid and you have to throw yourselves at them before they get the picture.

Mortal Coil
January 30th, 2012, 08:19 AM
1.) Remember, straight guys are stupid and you have to throw yourselves at them before they get the picture.

hahaha! funny, but not always true. Honestly, some of those ones might make him think you're homophobic, I got the answer out of somebody just by saying, hey, I'm not gonna judge, I'm just curious etc etc, so maybe try that :)

Darkness.
January 30th, 2012, 08:59 AM
The only way you'll be able to find out if their gay or bi is by talking to them and if they feel comfortable enough to tell you they will.

prodigy1996
January 31st, 2012, 10:47 PM
Thank you so much! I actually got shot down, but I tried all of these things! Thank you! :)