The Dating Game

[Vann]

Boys. Dates. Pressure. I've been asked before if I have had a boyfriend before. (I'm 13 by the way) I wouldn't mind having a bf actually it'd be nice. But I don't have a real need for one. So I was wondering does anybody feel the same? :what:

[Magenta]

Puberty for Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Actually, I feel like this a lot. I know I have no real need for a boyfriend/girlfriend but I often want one. A lot of my friends have started dating... I was seeing a guy for awhile and have been asked out a few times but couldn't accept due to varying circumstances... so I feel lonely sometimes.

You're not alone. :)

[Martin22]

From a male point of view....

I would stay single if you don't actually have feelings for a male. But been with someone makes you feel special and it is good having someone there. I have been with someone for nearly a year, we used to hate eachother but I started liking her, told her and it went from there. I have no real need to be with her, no one really does at the age of 13 but it is always nice to have someone there.

[OzGirlRachael]

I feel exactly the same. I don't have a bf either and i dont need 1 - but i think it wuld be nice to have 1

[heykay]

Single is the way to go. Don't let what others think affect your personal life.

[dinosaur_go_rawr]

For me and this boy i like it really is a game... I thought he was really into me as i was into him I dropped all the hints and gave all the signals and eventually got my mates to ask him out for me ( childish right!!?) he said no but keeps flirting with me and i dont know what to do. I want him as my bf but im a bit worried that he'll say no again! I need a bf so i dont feel lonley- and he's the one :-) xxxx

[Moxie]

You are absolutely not alone.

I, being in high school, am constantly surrounded by immature imbeciles, none of whom interest me at all.

I have been "asked out" by many guys, but I never say yes. If you have no desire to date, don't.

[Quercus]

"When you don’t get what you want, you suffer. If you get it, you suffer too since you can’t hold on to it forever."

One of my favorite quotes of all time.
I thought for awhile that if I wasnt dating someone.. id be doomed forever. A friend of mine made me realize that relationships arent the most important things ever! And that I had to make myself happy before I should date anyone.. after all If im not happy how can I make anyone else happy?

[swisss21]

i got a boy friend in early age and still continuing.

[Imfeelinglostagain]

13 is kinda young o be dating. I'm 15 and haven't had a boyfriend yet! I'd suggest waiting a couple more years and don't gve in to peer pressure. Good luck :)

[StoppingTime]

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